Boyfriend sent me a good morning text but ignored me since?

[Anonymous]

It’s the afternoon now and although I responded to his text in the morning, I sent him another one saying I missed him. Still no response.

he's obviously seen my text now and I’m very upset.

I keep thinking he doesn’t miss me or he's talking to other girls :(

We’ve only been dating for a couple of months by the way.

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1 y

Guys I don't know how to explain this but I get scared when I’m attached to someone. And the fact that I said told him I miss him and still nothing it REALLY SCARES
ME

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1 y

Guys he texted me back and I’m gonna break up with him again 😂😂

[Anonymous]

He’s probably busy. I get how you feel tho, I too sometimes get anxious when my boyfriend doesn’t respond to my text but then I realize it’s bc I have trust issues lol

[Asker]

I appreciate that

[silkjames]

if I'm busy at work I never texts back but if my girl calls I will answer the phone it's just easier and plus everyone too dependent on texting see your letting yourself think negative thoughts on a no reply texts just call him if he don't answer or does not call u back then I would worry there's should be no excuse on that for him... just saying:)

[Friendlybro79]

We've all been there and think similar to what you feel. I try to remind myself, could they be at work and busy? Even if he read it he might not be able to engage in conversation.

I think overthinking things like this is just a sure way to anxiety. Good luck. Hope this is helpful.

[Asker]

he's at work but as a guy don’t you think it means he's bored of me?

[Friendlybro79]

No I don't. I think you're projecting insecurities. I understand why someone could feel that way but you can't expect everyone to respond back to you when they're at work. I have told people flat out you can message me but if I'm busy I can't just drop everything and have a side conversation. Work is work time play is play time.

[Asker]

But he usually messages me at work

[Xoxocutekitty]

how is there an "again" when you've been dating a couple months? lol.

He might be your boyfriend but Im pretty sure you aren't compatible if you're on and off in the first three months of dating.

[Asker]

It may have been 2 months but it feels like 2 years. We’re both very passionate.

[ChrisMaster69]

I’m shit at replying, will say good morning, then go for a run or head to work into meeting and reply after lunch.

[Harleigh90]

Completely disagree.. 😋

[ChrisMaster69]

@Harleigh90 well yeah apart from erm you.

That’s more like rolling over in bed though

[Asker]

Honestly same here but ignoring me for the ENTIRE DAY from 6am til 9pm!

[ChrisMaster69]

@itsalyssaagain yeah that’s a tad long, was it just th one day, as people can forget their chargers

[Harleigh90]

@ChrisMaster69 🥰😋

[Asker]

No he responded saying I’m out with my boys... no apology nothing

[TwiNshichamp1]

Lol why he acts like that? Is it no love anymore?

[RealMarek]

Is this the same guy you broke up with because he wasn’t treating you well?

Was he at work? Perhaps a supervisor forbade him from texting?

[Asker]

Yes same guy

[RealMarek]

I hope he’s not messing with you again. If he is (and he did treat you badly before, so he probably is), you have to decide whether you’re willing to put up with it or nip it in the bud by breaking up again. I wish you well.

[Asker]

I don’t know

[RealMarek]

Did he give an explanation?

[Asker]

Not really he just said he's with his friends... I'm over it lol.

[motownplayer2000]

Yeah. That’s not healthy. You need to re-evaluate how you relate to your boyfriend. Being clingy like that and freaking out when he doesn’t answer you, will push him away.

[Asker]

I just miss my baby that’s all

[motownplayer2000]

And that’s fine. But you need to do it in constructive ways. Or it definitely won’t end well

[Birdlegs]

He’s probably rearranging some other girls organs right now. Maybe 2 at the same time that’s the only reason that I personally would ignore my girlfriend saying, “I miss you”

[SaartjieJane]

Or he’s at work and is busy…

[DermalPunch]

@Birdlegs you wrong for that. This girl is in crisis. Dude stop. 🤣 @itsalyssaagain don't pay him no mind.

[Birdlegs]

@SaartjieJane nah he’s clearly knee deep in multiple girls walls as we speak

[Tstrbrainer]

If he was bored of you he wouldn't have reached out to get back with you.

Trust him and give him time. Pray he's alright.

It's actually guys of gag who's now reassuring you instead of your boyfriend

[Asker]

I was surprised when we got back together honestly. Like he really wanted my back

[Tstrbrainer]

He really wanted your back? 🤔

[TickleMe4ForFun]

Calm down, clingy psycho!
Just because it takes him a while to respond don't mean he is banging chicks between messages.

But if you want to assume he is, then go ahead and tell him and scare him off with your psycho thoughts! Probably best that he finds out about your cray cray now, before investing anymore time into this relationship! You don't trust him now, so you are never going to trust him. It is best that you both move on from this broken relationship!

[Asker]

I know that he's at work

[Waldoe]

stop acting to obsessed and possessive He will LEAVE you, guys HATE that behavior

[Asker]

Im not blowing up his phone

[Waldoe]

Noooo... you blowing up GaG

[Asker]

Exactly

[Carolus]

Not even 24 hrs? You just overreacting here, that’s normal, it could be anything, may be busy, not everyone is enthusiastic about chatting or communicating all day nonstop.

[yucychan]

Are you that childish and insecure that you need to threaten to break up with your boyfriend each time he doesn't reply you immediately?
Get a life.

[JohnK123]

Ya she’s probably a troll

[Asker]

Imagine being 50 and telling a 24 year old to get a life. I’d think you’d know better than to try and upset someone who’s already vulnerable.

[bolverk]

Most guys are not attached to their phones the way women are.
If he is in the middle of a job he'll not look at his phone until its the end of the job or lunch time, even lunch time is no guarantee he’ll look at his phone then.

[JohnK123]

He could easily be busy and not able to pick the ohone up
or he got a job

[JohnK123]

Why break up with him again

[Asker]

Because his reason after ignoring me the entire day was that he was with his boys

[JohnK123]

Ok… and shouldn’t that be ok? Let him hang out with his friends
Unless he was with another girl and doing stuff

[Asker]

It’s fine I don’t care

[JohnK123]

Kind of seems like controlling… but ok

[Asker]

I don’t care if he hangs out with his friends

[JohnK123]

Oh so u broke up just because he didn’t reply then?

[Asker]

No I’m not mad I’m over it

[JohnK123]

Then why break up…

[Asker]

Because I’m probably better single

[JohnK123]

Oh ok got it

[Asker]

Lol yeah life of an avoidant

[RavVid]

He could be busy at work. Don't stalk before the 6 month mark :).

[PatriceONeal]

All women overthink and over analyze. Sometimes to the detriment to the relationship. Instead of asking strangers you really should be talking to him directly.

[CallmeTheKnight]

You need to friggin relax. You're gonna create an issue that was never there

[spartan55]

I don't think you are mature enough to be in a relationship.

[Asker]

Thanks

[KingofCups]

Honestly it's good to remind your girl every now and then that you're not always available 100% of the time.

[Gloree]

Get yourself busy. Most times the idle party is always looking for attention

[AimeeKyle]

Calm down and work to improve your confidence.

He was probably busy / unable to text.

[Jamesshinobi]

he probably died in a car accident. give him some space!!

[Shamalien]

I get it, but is it a work day? He might be trying to focus

[Itsathsuperthik1]

he's wanting you to come to me and let me fill that void and your pussy full of me!

[Asker]

Oh my god

[Itsathsuperthik1]

Oh my god what?