Do girls look down on guys with no dating experience? Will girls be hesitant to start a relationship with an inexperienced guy?

[Anonymous]

I'm almost 30 and never been on a date before. I've kissed a girl, hooked up with a few over the years but never been on an actual date. And it's not cos of school, or focusing on my career, etc.. I just never asked a female out

Do Women look down on guys like me

[DaveJord]

I think its like everything else my man... you can use it as a weakness or you can take that weakness make it into a strength. The thing about dating is that it like everything else you only get better at it by trying... becoming more experienced.

So if you are at a point in your life where you really want to turn to the corner on this then you just have to be honest about that with the women you meet. But before you try to be honest with other women about it, you have to be honest with yourself about it. You have to do some self reflection on it and then determine what things about you can you change in order to become the best version of yourself and be honest with women about those things.

So ask yourself what was it about you that got you to this point in your life with out dating? What insecurities are there about you, what fears or other reasons or things that contributed to your lack of motivation in this area... and what areas in your life are you willing to make changes about. Then be honest about those things with women and you will find that with right women she will be more understanding then you think in working through a relationship with you... because you know your weakness and are trying to making a strength out it.

But in order to do this you have to make your vulnerable to getting hurt, knowing that failure is a part of the natural dating process and their is no way to avoid that. It takes some confidence in knowing that you will get hurt, but ever time you do you will be one step closer to finding success and every failure is just another opportunity to make yourself better.

[Curmudgeon]

At this point, you should seek out "Cougar Dating" or "Older Women Seeking Younger Man" dating sites. No, the relationships will not likely last, but you gain experience, and she gets to feel younger again (and likely recovers from a bitter divorce). Win-win, at least short term.

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah, unquestionably. Women will 100% see inexperience as a bad thing.

[In_Trance]

This happens as people age

[Anonymous]

So you're not a virgin then?