Girls rejected me, slapped me, called the cops, warned me. How do I approach girls? Why I'm not lucky in love and sex?

[Anonymous]

I feel upset, I cry when I see other guys with beautiful girlfriends and good sex life.

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I still don't understand what women want? Money, looks, height, career, property, education. I have all those qualities but I'm not tall, not ultra rich. I don't have a long checklist. I'm ready to marry and settle down with any good girl and start a family.

[Anonymous]

The cops could not do anything about it anyways, never let a girl slap you either, you did nothing wrong. You can say whatever you want without getting in legal trouble.


Did you touch her or something?

[Asker]

No I didn't touch her. I was trying to talk to her and convince her to date me. Forget it, no girl Indian or American or EU will understand me. All girls and women are same.

[Opinion Owner]

No girls are the same, just like guys

[JakeS00]

Worry about other things in life. There's more to life than this.

[Asker]

I know there are other things in life. This part is missing in my life. My friends, relatives make fun of me, they say you are still single, you are gay and coward. When I approach girls they just rudely reject me, warn me. They act like they are talking to a criminal. Why don't girls understand a man's feelings? I'm a good human being. It hurts me.

[JakeS00]

Some women are like that and nitpicky. Maybe it's all in how you approach women, too.

[JakeS00]

I saw your update. Look for women who are ready to date to marry and are serious.

[Asker]

All girls rejected me. Most of them said they will wait for a better guy, tall guy, more handsome, more rich, with more properties. I want to tell all the girls that good job, some property is enough to marry and start a family. If we wait, sit idle, we will grow old and live a sexless life.

[JakeS00]

I feel like the focus shouldn’t involve sex but a prosperous and life changing life with others. If a woman comes into your life and isn’t serious, then off to the next one who comes in.

[Asker]

Women say they are seriously looking but they want more. Women are greedy. Some said you are desperate for sex. Tell me how can I explain sexless life of a single man?

[JakeS00]

Life is not about sex. All Women aren’t greedy. Just live life.

[Asker]

Please understand, I'm Indian and I'm talking about India. Dating is difficult in India.

[Sour-rose]

Maybe you should stop trying so hard. Oooor keep trying to do what you do and it'll probably happen again.. and again... and again... and ag-

[Asker]

Yes you are right. Im done with dating. I will focus on my career. Other than dating my life is good and beautiful.

[Sour-rose]

Now hold on now... ain't nothing wrong with not wasting time dating some dumb bish. Howeve, if you're going to focus on your career. Make sure you at least enjoy the work and could set you up for life <3

[Asker]

Yes absolutely

[Ms_Facesitter]

Those other guys either did the approach differently and or are with a girl who isn't as extreme as the one who rejected you.

[Asker]

Girl who called the cops, after few months, she invited me to a party. I didn't go.

[Asker]

Another girl who rejected me without knowing completely about me. After a year she approached me and said sorry I reacted quickly and rudely. She said you are such a good guy with a good family background, you should have told me earlier. She thought I was a bad guy. I said you didn't gave me a chance to explain. She was ready to date, but I rejected her.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Good you rejected her, I hope she learned from it.

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah none of those “qualities” you mention include personality, sense of humour, being nice, not toxic, not rapey,

poor people date / marry
disabled people date / marry
people in prison date / marry
Short people date / marry.

one of the key parts is how a person is as a person, not material things.

[Asker]

I'm a nice guy. I don't have to write about it.

[ChrisMaster69]

I know some complete arseholes who have never had this happen - “Girls rejected me, slapped me, called the cops, warned me.”

That does not happen to normal people

I would review what you think is nice.

[Asker]

Yes it happened to me. I'm Indian and I'm talking about India.

[Arwen06]

Maybe you're just ugly

[Asker]

No, I'm handsome.

[Asker]

I dont want to date Indian girls anymore. Will you marry me?

[Arwen06]

No way

[Asker]

I'm rich. All the best.

[Arwen06]

I don't need your money

[Asker]

OK, I want a girl who loves me not my money.

[Zachgoat308]

Arwen you look like a guy, get a better operation next time.

[Arwen06]

You're such a virgin

[Zachgoat308]

i know you are, its okay