It's unreal. I can easily pull girls that I don't like, but somehow I get rejected by the ones I like, why?
I'm good-looking and can make a conversation easily, and ask for a social media, but when I ask for a date, I always get turned down.
I act the same around every girl
A few girls told me I was the best-looking guy they had ever seen, so it's probably not that I look bad, or don't take care of myself.
I'm seriously lost.
What Girls Said
Okay so I got a question first. When you say every girl that you like... how many is that? Is it 3 or so or are we talking like 20 or whatever? Not knowing you or interacting with you I really don't know. You need to really take a good hard look at yourself. I know that it is hard to do and find faults but maybe it is some small thing not related to looks but with personality or your approach or... the list can go on and on. There is not way for me to know without actually knowing the person what the problem might be.
true, I'll try fixing it. but I don't think it's my personality, because when we are in person, they always smile, or laugh.
it may be something else I'll try to find it out.
Could it be the approach when you ask or maybe you ask too quickly after initial conversation? I am just trying to think of anything that might make sense.
I called for a date with 5 women, so it's possible that nothing is wrong, they just happen to not find me attractive
that may be the case, because I usually invite the too quickly. how long should I take?
Alright so that is the million dollar question because everyone is different. Here is what I suggest and will really depend on the circumstances you meet her under. If this is say at a bar or something you got one shot and you gotta take it. Get as much conversation in as you can and then take your shot. If on the other hand you know you are going to be able to see her again like if this would be a girl from school you can take some more time and have multiple encounters to kinda build a foundation. Hope this makes sense.
yes, thanks for the answer, I'll try it
You're welcome!