Dating as a woman is shopping, dating as a man is a job interview. Agree or disagree?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Like shopping? Yeah maybe you could compare it to if you’re trying to find something nice among the dollarstores left over pieces on the sales rack. Half are obviously damaged, the majority of the rest is unappealing, you might find something that seem ok but upon further inspection you find it has a huge tear in a place that’s not obvious. And these men have the audacity too. And any conversation (if you could call it that) with like 80-90% of men go exactly the same to the point you know exactly what they’re going to say next and it absolutely feels like a job interview. They just ask question after question. No flow to the conversation, no fun casual conversations at all even if you’re trying to they just default back to their interview style ”conversation”. The minority of men (at least on dating sites) who know how to keep a fun and light concersation are almost always the best ones. I’ve never had anything move past a first date with an ”interview-guy” because they’re just as stiff, boring and ”interviewy” irl as they are online.

[Asker]

Men need skill to attract women. That includes social skills as well. Men need these things. Women dont

[Guffrus]

What?

You were trying to do banter?

This lady right here is a unicorn.

[Asker]

S. I. M. P

[Guffrus]

@asker A good rule of thumb is that if you ever find yourself saying 'simp' you should probably kill yourself.

[Asker]

A good rule of thumb is stop acting like one

[Guffrus]

All I have done is give credit where credit is due, nothing more, that doesn't make me a simp you stupid cunt, it is simply an objective fact.

What is also objectively a fact is that hiding behind your fucking keyboard isn't enough for you, you have to be anon as well, you can't even scrap together enough testicle to openly post.

So take a good hard look at yourself and see if you can correctly identify who the pathetic faggot is here.

Spoiler alert; it isn't me.

[Asker]

She's not gonna fuck you bro

[Guffrus]

Well that has never been on my agenda and I couldnt care less who she fucks.

I haven't expressed any interest in her, at all, none.

I am not guiltly of the crime you would assign me with.

You however are entirely guilty of the crimes I accuse you of.

So be silent, pathetic troll.

[Asker]

Usually the only guys that come to the rescue are simps

[Guffrus]

Just kill yourself retard, you aren't backing out now.

[Asker]

No thanks soy boy im good. Continue being a simp. You're good at it

[Guffrus]

I wish you were bright enough to realise your argument made no sense.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

I mean, a job interview is still a two way street.

Why are men so desperate? Dudes, raise your standards. You can job interview your dates, too.

[Asker]

Women wonder why they're never satisfied a lot of times. Its because higher standards, means you're only focused on the top 20% of men and those men have options. You're playing by their rules

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Well, lowering standards certainly won't help women feel MORE satisfied.

And there's plenty of subpar men who get dates. I dated two of them.

It isn't like men don't have expectations either. I've had to be mother, manager, maid, and sex toy for the subpar men. They still have wants and needs their partners need to meet to satisfy them.

If you want to hold higher standards and meet them yourself, of course you'll have more options for dating.

Did you think you'd get through life coasting? That's not really how life works, bud.

[Asker]

I've seen plenty of homless people become millionaires so a lot of homless are just lazy

[Asker]

Men and women aren't the same

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Lol, source? "Trust me, bruh".

[Asker]

What source?

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I look it as we are both interviewing each other. If a woman wanted to flex that she has options then that’s not an individual I’m going to commit my time with.


I ask very unique and open ended questions to see what kind of perspectives they carry and their potential for growth as a person. I walk away from a person if I have to

[Anonymous]

Not at all.

When you go shopping you have to pay and you get job interviews on the strength of your submitted paperwork.

[jshm2]

Disagree.

You're both responsible for making it work

[LazerBean]

Nah we both interviewed the heck out of eachother.

[Asker]

How do you figure?

[LazerBean]

There no figuring about it, it's just a fact. That's just how it is when two people who know what they want are looking for a serious relationship.

[Asker]

You didn't tell me how both are interviewed

[LazerBean]

Do you know what you meant when a guy dates he gets interviewed? If the answer is yes, then just like that both in both directions.

[Asker]

Yeah he's getting interviewed. Not her