I have limited dating experiences with my own race of men?

[cth2188]

I'm open to dating within my race due to cultural reasons, but I feel so nervous because I mostly dated outside my race. What to say to this?

[Chris7094]

I'm kinda that way too. I'm White and I've mostly been with Brown women my whole life. Sometimes I worry that I'm not even comfortable being intimate with women of my own race, and I have limited experience with them. I t's confusing. I would definitely kiss some White women, but most of them seem too familiar to me.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

That’s entirely up to you. I think it’s about what you want and need from a partner at the the of the day. Don’t let that get you down or make you feel some type of way

[cth2188]

I still desire black men

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Then pursue black men, date whoever you want

[cth2188]

Yeah bit a certain type

[cth2188]

But a certain type

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

Then express your type and why to the Black men you want

[cth2188]

OK thanks

[kylee2437]

What makes you so nervous to date within your culture?

[cth2188]

Bad experiences that has me guarded

[kylee2437]

Hmmm do you think it was cultural or more so the people that you chose to associate with?

[cth2188]

Both.. it's crazy I still desire my own race of men

[Sparkie460]

Every one is human. We all bleed red. A man is a man and a woman is a woman. Don't look at the color of a person's skin. Look at what is behind the skin. That's how you find your soul mate.

[cth2188]

I agree

[Avicenna]

Remember that you date a person, not an entire race, so be open-minded and give them a fair chance.

[cth2188]

I have nothing against my race.. no opportunities presented itself

[altdbob]

That you are stupid. Be with who you want to be with. If you decide to date just within your own race because of cultural reasons, then you are no better than any other racist.

[cth2188]

Who said anything about cultural reasons? I said I have limited dating experiences with my own race of men because of cultural environments meaning.. no black guy has legitimately approached me

[cth2188]

I have no issue dating my own race of men and made that clear in my post. Get off my post with this negativity

[cth2188]

I also dealt with traumatic experiences within my own race

[altdbob]

You did "I'm open to dating within my race due to cultural reasons, but I feel so nervous because I mostly dated outside my race. What to say to this?"

[cth2188]

Cultural reasons because I have dealt with traumas dating my own race of men.. I am nkt about to put my business on this board. Due to trauma I'm limited on what to say. I'm coming around trusting my own race of men again.

[cth2188]

Now I get to block you

[cth2188]

Not *

[cth2188]

Yes I am nervous about dating my own race of men

[FilmGuy93]

You just have to be willing to take things slow and let relationships develop naturally.

[Zolly99999]

What's the difference? All men are human beings.

[cth2188]

Cultural disadvantages

[cth2188]

Some have preferences

[Zolly99999]

I guess I don't understand because I'm not like that.. I don't care what race , ethnicity or background she is. . if I'm attracted to her then I'm attracted..

[cth2188]

Folks have preferences when iy comes to dating.. I am attracted to multiple races not just one

[cth2188]

It *

[cth2188]

There can be a physical attraction, but not emotional or mental

[cth2188]

When I'm dealing with a man there has to be attraction all across the board

[Zolly99999]

I hear what you are saying.

[cth2188]

OK thanks