Does his vibe sound bad?

So I've (26f) been chatting with this guy (29m) and have only been on 1 date with him and I'm already feeling lost. If I say I have an issue with work and can't talk, he repeatedly asks me to tell him what it is altho I constantly tell him I don't want to.

I asked what he generally thought about marriage, and he said he wants to settle soon and when speaking of his ideal partner, he kept saying "I'd like you to" instead of "I'd like her to" - it's suuper uncomfortable. If I hint that our interests are different, he says "it's ideal that way" and never asks how I feel about it.

Is it just me or is he being too pushy?

Does his vibe sound bad?
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