Does he sound nasty?

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My on/off boyfriend confuses me a lot. We’ve split a few times and currently trying to fix things. Technically, I am single at the moment. And he even said so. He found out I was talking to other guys and called me unfaithful. He gets insanely jealous and always asks who I have sent photos too etc, he even got angry at me posting a picture of my own face on Snapchat thinking it means I’m talking to other men?

He’s so hot and cold with me. And says I don’t understand someone who’s hurting? Yet I went to visit him in his city and he wouldn’t say yes or not to meeting so I got frustrated, I never saw him and he said I was trying to “force” him. How does that make sense? I just wanted to know at least I could have made other plans with friends (I even said this). Anyway, we didn’t talk at all today. And I just politely said to him I’ve accepted he isn’t interested, that he’s welcome to talk anytime (as friends) but I won’t keep pursuing him anymore. And all he can say is “you don’t like it when you don’t get your way”. What is his problem? I have decided to move on now, but I just want to get my head around it because I am doubting myself right now

one1wild00 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like he is a control freak and hasn't learned to love and trust if you were in a close relationship with him for an extended period of time Id be worried if i were you. its good to get out now. Its a hard lesson he should learn but probably won't that if you hold on to tight to a person they will slip out of your grasp and he can't control everything even if he wants to. I'm saying good choice in moving on.

coffee_hates_me · Accepted Answer

your story just reminded me of this commercial on abusive relationships. if he's not ready to be transparent about what he wants from you and is just trying to control who you want to meet, be careful: