My on/off boyfriend confuses me a lot. We’ve split a few times and currently trying to fix things. Technically, I am single at the moment. And he even said so. He found out I was talking to other guys and called me unfaithful. He gets insanely jealous and always asks who I have sent photos too etc, he even got angry at me posting a picture of my own face on Snapchat thinking it means I’m talking to other men?
He’s so hot and cold with me. And says I don’t understand someone who’s hurting? Yet I went to visit him in his city and he wouldn’t say yes or not to meeting so I got frustrated, I never saw him and he said I was trying to “force” him. How does that make sense? I just wanted to know at least I could have made other plans with friends (I even said this). Anyway, we didn’t talk at all today. And I just politely said to him I’ve accepted he isn’t interested, that he’s welcome to talk anytime (as friends) but I won’t keep pursuing him anymore. And all he can say is “you don’t like it when you don’t get your way”. What is his problem? I have decided to move on now, but I just want to get my head around it because I am doubting myself right now
He’s so hot and cold with me. And says I don’t understand someone who’s hurting? Yet I went to visit him in his city and he wouldn’t say yes or not to meeting so I got frustrated, I never saw him and he said I was trying to “force” him. How does that make sense? I just wanted to know at least I could have made other plans with friends (I even said this). Anyway, we didn’t talk at all today. And I just politely said to him I’ve accepted he isn’t interested, that he’s welcome to talk anytime (as friends) but I won’t keep pursuing him anymore. And all he can say is “you don’t like it when you don’t get your way”. What is his problem? I have decided to move on now, but I just want to get my head around it because I am doubting myself right now
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