How many girls have you asked out to date?

[jahrein]

what is your success rate

[Middleman]

Probably about 8 so far - and I've gone and met up with all of them so 100%. Four of them even became relationships for a while. The key point is all about presentation, timing, and getting a sense of how they'd feel. Also what you say (and how you say it) counts.

If there’s something I could use to describe how women are in dating it could be this:

Most women are how should I put it, trained from a very early age about guys - so she can see bad guys a mile off. By bad I mean bad for her - someone who doesn't love her or appreciate her, mistreats her or just takes advantage of her. Or someone who is not who or what they say they are (dishonest person). And that's before we even talk about looks or compatibility. For a guy to get a successful date unfortunately there are no short or straight answers as even the most successful guys in dating sometimes fail also. If you’ve ever been to a bank to try and open an account and filled in an application form for approval - that’s what the dating process is like for women. And like any bank they'll also ask you security questions - answer them wrongly and you'll get no for an answer. Thing is, some guys I see here don't even realise them when they do come up...

I've had some interesting dates - and the most interesting one was totally spontaneous. I was out doing my own thing when a lovely girl asked me for directions one day. One thing led to another and - I'd never expected a date to come out of it, but it did.

[Phoenix98]

It's decent out of the six I've asked I dated 4 of them. The success rate could have been higher but I was either not in the mood for relationships at the time someone was interested in me or I was already with someone.

[LisaLisa89]

None.

If I tried to calculate my success rate in a spreadsheet formula I'd get a divide by zero error.

[d3n0939]

How many asked you out?

[sidhagain]

Same!

[ChrisMaster69]

I don’t really know, 100’s

‘excuse me would you like to have a date?’

”no”

’oh I supposed a fucks out of the questions then?’

success rate likely 40%

[slatyb]

I did most of my dating online and was fairly successful in getting first dates. I rejected more women for a second date than rejected me.

[Kaneki05]

Never have. But my success rate for girls asking me? It's more than I would of expected granted none of them lasted sadly.

[exitseven]

It has been maybe 25 or 30. I probably have dated 15-20 of them in my whole life. however, one year I went 6 for six. a couple of them lasted for 4 or 5 months.

[Anonymous]

i haven't really asked anyone out lately , at the bar asked some girls to do shots/buy them drinks , a couple said no but most said yes , some of which were fairly good looking women. but after we did the drink it didn't lead to much

[chicosuave]

No offense but don't buy girls drinks. wrong move bro. Especially when they are strangers. Only when you're dating and when you know the girl for sometime

[Opinion Owner]

@chicosuave they were girls i knew from real life or had seen before on social media and wanted to meet , none were like true strangers , some were girls i knew from other bars or servers at them and knew them through the bar scene

[NathanDavis]

one... and she said yes, so I guess that's a 100% success rate

[chicosuave]

100 s and only 10 percent said yes. For us men it's only a numbers game

[finesxed_j]

none ik no girl likes me so y bother i already know the answer

[Adronicus]

I lost count, a few hundred at least. Success rate isn't that great because when a woman plays games with me I walk away & NEVER look back.

[Googlemyahoo]

Zero. They’ve always approached me. My friends always got mad.

[Twalli]

Technically 3. Two to a high school dance, but only one on a specific actual date that wasn't a dance. I only had success with the last one.

[Anonymous]

4 or 5 I think. None have said yes. Why I stopped asking many years ago.

[Anonymous]

What counts as a date? I mean did I actually have to go out with them. Or does just sleeping with them count as a date?

[Anonymous]

Probably like seven or eight of them, remind me of something that I doubt will ever change unfortunately

[BarryLiverstone]

Over 10 have

[baserunner611]

40 percent