How many people have you asked out in your life?

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And how succesfull youve been

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Hmmm I only asked out one guy when I was 7, he was my best guy friend and he rejected me cuz he liked my older sister. I "dated" 3 guys in my childhood for a few days each LOL. Two of them are still my friends to this day. After that in high school my "friend" asked out all of the ugliest guys in school because she figured that was my league... and they all rejected me hahahaha. Anyways after that it has just been talking to guys online... I usually don't ask them out it just goes that way or it doesn't. I only met 2 guys IRL and I always make the first move which is kissing LOL.

menina · Accepted Answer

I've never asked anyone out. I don't think I'll do it anytime soon.

Mr_Potatoman · Accepted Answer

I've asked cca 10 girls out for a date, 7 girls have said yes out of which I had to cancel 3 dates.
That brings me to going out with 4 girls, one of those didn't see our going out as a date (my fault, should have been more specific when asking her out).
Out of those remaining three I've dated 2 of them and stayed a close friend with the third one.
Out of those two.. First one cheated on my after being together 10 months. Second one.. well that one I married and we are currently living happily together and raising a little girl. 😁

Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

That's a hard one to answer. I've "asked out" maybe 4 women and gotten 2 of them.

Most of the time, I'm just looking for a casual encounter so to speak so even if it ended in a relationship, I never "asked" them out.

You ask someone out after spending a lot of time thinking about them and you have a reason to think she's into you.

Otherwise you're fooling yourself and you just want to bang. Which there's nothing wrong with that but the way to get a girl for that is a little different in my opinion

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I've probably asked at least 150 women for a first date. I think about 80-90% of those women said yes. I met a number of them and didn't want to have a second date.

Lliam · Answer

I think I asked maybe 12 women out. 10 accepted. 4 of those, including my wife, turned into great, long-term relationships.
I had other girlfriends who initially asked me out, so I didn't include them in my answer to this question.
I had 8 long-term girlfriends in my life, beginning at age 16. I include my wife in that number. We've been married now for over 26 years.

NewsReader · Answer

Zero. I was never confident enough in myself to risk rejection and making a fool out of myself. After a while I just said that I will never date. I like being single and that's how I want to be forever. I found what works for me which is great. I found my place. No need to change.

Saramad_Hill · Answer

Like, pretty much zero. I don't like taking risks. I also didn't date until I was twenty. So, the six or so dates I've had since then, the women mainly initiated the dates. I should mention I'm usually more single than taken. Probably four outta twenty eight years of my life has been in a relationship.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I have asked out 4 girls. Once when I was 10, once when I was 13, once when I was 14, and once when I was 15. That's it. Never again after that.

(I had a crush when I was 23, but I didn't really ask her out. I just kind of fumbled around and half-assed it, then finally ended up making her uncomfortable with my awkwardness, so after that I never talked to her again. ... Well, except once to apologize.)

ZackBan · Answer

If by asked out you mean suggested to a girl to go out with me on day it's well over 200 in the last 3 years alone. As for success I would say most say yes to the date but not most end up becoming a girlfriend or anything.

UmbrusNightshade · Answer

I don’t know for sure. Somewhere around 5-7.

Twice it worked out but then I got in my head and screwed things up.

This last time though, it sure felt she was open to my advances but then it quickly went to shit.

Anonymous · Answer

Probably 3 directly, 1 indirectly and 1 said yes but into a couple of months she left for her ex. We didn't date per se, either. I've attracted like 3 girls (without asking out) but I never liked them. Those are the ones I knew. I dunno was there anyone else.

PS: Talked-up with a couple of other girls without directly asking out but the intention implied. Never went as far as dating.

humanearth · Answer

Lots and I did most of it before cellphones and internet So I did it face to face If I had to put a percentage on it I would say 60% of the time was a win for me

exitseven · Answer

It has been a long time but I am thinking about 20. I actually dated 8 of them. One I was getting ready to ask out but before I could she invited me to a party.

Luopio27 · Answer

If you count date sites and tinder missmatches, then over a 1000 but date requests with people that I knew. Less than a 100.

I have rejcted less thsn 10 girls in my life.

Never scored. never found love.

SnowedIn · Answer

A lot. More than 20? I don't count. Maybe half of those were successful. Perhaps less.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Zero. I wait longer than most people to get to that stage, so the woman always beats me to it by a very large amount of time.

Vikkrram · Answer

I've never been asked out , and i do really understand why lol 😅

FunkyMonkee · Answer

At least 14 people. Of those, I only went out with about 8 of them and only one ended up my girlfriend.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Waaaayyy more than I can count. Early on, got rejected a lot. Later, it was like 100%

AdithyaR · Answer

Asked out 4, all failed. Not gonna try a fifth time.

msc545 · Answer

Far too many. I don't do it anymore, but when I did I was very successful - if you want to call that success - I don't.

TallAnon · Answer

Do we include dating apps? If so, I've had a period in my life where I just spammed like 1000 girls the same message, lol. Was pretty successful

Heolurt · Answer

Thousands plus for sure with a 100% rejection rate and that's why after so many years of trying, I gave up for good.

Anonymous · Answer

Not many and usually never worked so I stopped doing it , only thing that ever worked was when friends or family introduced me or online dating since you already know what you are there for

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Few. Koko, Dawn Marie, and possibly more. I was about half successful.

BJP21 · Answer

4 different people not knowing they already had a boyfriend.

Fryday_Knight · Answer

Three out of four. They said yes, as in thenone time the woman asked... I said yes

LiamJHayden · Answer

Asked? Over 500. Hit %? Somewhere around 10%

WTFdivorce · Answer

probably 30 or 40 at least. I don't keep track but it's middle of the road I think.

Sasha0426 · Answer

Honestly, none. I’ve been asked out, but rejected those who did.

Passing_by · Answer

For a serious relationship? Just one. And yes, it was successful.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

I've no Idea but we all get turned down at some point. being More yes than no answers

GregTurner00 · Answer

I have asked 3 and got with 3, but there's a very long list of people I never tried asking since I figured it would be a no

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Asked out 2. First one had a boyfriend. And 2nd one was good to go

Anonymous · Answer

I’ve gotten asked out twice and I asked out about two girls and was unsuccessful. I have low confidence

a_crush · Answer

Lol, I can propose you right here😂

petitedollbabee · Answer

I think maybe 6. 4 have said yes.

Boredaf99 · Answer

1 and he totally forgot about it.

alcorriher · Answer

none have asked me out

OddBeMe · Answer

4. married the last one. Cha ching!

Dav1dTh0ma389 · Answer

Not many, and not very

Caramelpie · Answer

Just 2 my ex and my current boyfriend.

Echosoul · Answer

A handful I can remember. No success

Anonymous · Answer

0. I don't ask out guys.

Anonymous · Answer

Enough. 0 for lifetime.

MidnightxMadness · Answer

I didn't count there's so many

electromagnetic · Answer

3 I think.

Akam93 · Answer

Honestly only 4.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Asked out zero so

Iron_Man · Answer

No one

In_Trance · Answer

too many to count

JustCantSleep · Answer

5 no 3 yes.

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