Guys: Do you "cold approach" any type of women, of only ones you find attractive, if so why?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Only the ones that I find attractive in some way. More times than not if it is a small waist and a nice butt, I will make a way to speak. If she is of a receptive and fun personality, I will tear into a couple jokes... by then I've realized if she's good looking or not. One never knows what they are going to get but it's like finding the perfect treasure... shark tooth on the beach. It is yours... and Why always comes up. It's about the Hunt, mostly...

[Asker]

Thanks for your response. I have gotten cold approached, and its weird even when the guy is attractive. I literally tought it was a prank. That's why I wondered if its just for anyone or the ones men find pretty.

[Guy13]

For the most part, money and time make guys selective. Now, the real point for most guys is to see if she will let us screw her. That's the truth and some guys simply care not as long as there is an available hole. I'm not that way... sexy and hot with a nasty streak or personality gets me limp. That's why it is a treasure hunt for me.. it's not just a piece of ass.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

No, cold approaching never works. And it runs the risk of getting you pepper sprayed or called out on social media.

I've got a buddy who's cold approached hundreds of women. He's ended up with a few dozen phone numbers and zero dates. And he got punched out by a white knight in a parking lot once.

Online dating and meeting women through your communities are the only way to go.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing your view. I wonder what's behind a guys mind on this.
Even when they some of the guys who "cold approached" me were attractive, I've never gave them my number since I didint felt safe. Literally I felt like a prey.

[Avicenna]

I did it a lot when I was younger and some more in my 40s. Was actually quite productive. Of course, I only did it with women I was attracted to. It's really a matter of opportunity- you see a chance to have a convo and you take advantage of it. It can be a lot of fun.

[Asker]

Thanks for your response. Interesting, would you say opportunity depends on "coinciding" with a woman you like or its more if you feel safe? The times I've gotten cold approach I wonder if this is a "hobby" for the guy, since they come off a bit strong. I mantain. my composure but dont feel safe.

[Avicenna]

Well, his personality has a lot to do with it. Some guys find it easy to talk to people in general, but what you probably experienced was a guy genuinely being attracted and therefore excited.

[BarryLiverstone]

Not normally because I don’t want her to feel intimidated.

[Asker]

Thanks for your response. I also share that view, I think shows respect and empathy. The times had happen I worry about my personal safety.

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome. Yes as often as I’ve been encouraged to cold approach I think what would she think when a 6’6 guy just walks over to her and starts launching into a conversation. She would be scared and wondering how she can escape. So I try to be more laid back and chill

[Ironic_Method]

I'll cold approach anyone that I'd like in my life in some way, but I always hope for something substantial with the attractive ones - I want to lust over my partner too!

[Anonymous]

The only thing I approach is the weight bar.

[Anonymous]

No, that's a good way to get falsely accused of sexual harassment or rape.