I was 16 and he was 37, I just realized recently how it was so creepy, am I so dumb for that?

[Hotandangerous0]

We met in international website called Interpals and he was writing me and asking me for some n*des (I was just 16). I was always thinking that was normal. He was inviting me to USA to have s*x and I was telling him it's illegal cause I am 16 and he was saying that it's not illegal in his state. Now I can understand how it was so creepy but it's kinda too late for that. He is 42 and still can't find a woman to marry cause no woman in the USA wants to marry him. The weird thing is I was still talking to him since a week ago. Now I blocked him cause I realized the truth that it is so creepy. I feel so dumb

[Anonymous]

Yeah. But you're not the dumbest women I've seen. A woman I used to work with was married to a pedophile for 5 years and had 3 kids with him. It took him finally going to prison for molesting her mentally challenged cousin for her to finally realize who he was. At that point I think a part of her still didn't want to quit him because she was thrust into being a single mother.

I'll never understand how some women can be this weak minded. I felt bad for her but God D*MN! If you're not going to do it for you do it for your kids. They have only YOU to protect them.

[Hotandangerous0]

She knew that he is a pedo before marrying him?

[Opinion Owner]

No, she fell in love with him but all the red flags were there. He was 26 and she was 16 when they met. What 26 year old chases after a 16 year old? A creeper that's who.

[Hotandangerous0]

Oh I see. I was always thinking like 16 is not really a young age but it is

[MikeInHawaii]

It would have been illegal. There is a federal law called the Mann Act, named for the senator who wrote it. It’s a federal offense to take minors across state lines for sexual purposes. So, even if the age of consent is 16 in his home state, he could get five years for transporting you there. And, the nude pictures are kiddie porn.

[Spiritofn]

Glad you noticed that but can you notice if theirs fake people in your life I guess comes down to the real question because how did you end up their in the first place..

[Hotandangerous0]

Sorry I didn't understand your question

[Spiritofn]

🫥..

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I used to be on Interpals but I deleted my account cause I lost interest but he was in the wrong for taking advantage of you and being age 37 and you were age 16.

[In_Trance]

It may have been the right decision at the time but clearly now it wouldn't be. It's not dumb if you learned from it which clearly you did

[gangs_and_guns]

16 yaşındaki kızdan nude isteyen bir kişi zaten pedofili demektir. Neyse kendini kurtarmışsın

[AmeerX]

It wasn't as creepy as you giving him nudes in the first place. Just forget about it

[Hotandangerous0]

I give him my nudes when I am 17 but he asked me when I was 16 too

[AmeerX]

I guess it was an innocent mistake on your part. Don't feel bad about it now.

[QuietRunner]

his good idea to block him

sounds dangerous

[Zolly99999]

You were young and nieve... don't beat yourself up.. but yes. Super creepy. That guy is s pedophile.

[panamared1]

Forgive yourself and move on, life is a series of learning mistakes and moments, that was one of yours

[Grubhub]

Yes you got raped, he’s old enough to be your daddy

[Avicenna]

Report it to the website as well

[Hotandangerous0]

He doesn't use that website anymore but I think there are tons of men like him there...

[Avicenna]

I'd still report it so they can ban them from the website. TBH, they probably either should not allow any people under 18 on it or any people over 18.

[Bluemax]

Well, you learned.

[Guy13]

Frightening...

[rohitbiruli008]

You look too old to be 16 in your profile

[Hotandangerous0]

It happened years ago dude. You have to be joking

[Yup69]

Very creepy these guys aren't much for society

[TheMajesticKing777]

Shit happens