Why is it so hard to find a woman who hates alcohol AND religion in the US?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Most non drinkers I find are religious.

[DizzyDesii]

Lol its also hard to find a guy who does not smoke, hardly drinks, and believes in God! Lets face it, we like a rare breed

[DizzyDesii]

And yea I’ve found some.. but then they’re too old 🤣 My list goes on...

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah I can't stand smokers/druggies either.

The ones I find who don't smoke, drink, or do drugs, and like every hobby and interest I like, are either too young, already taken, or outside the US (usually japan, china, or malaysia, rarely russia or uk)

US female nerds who play difficult video games and draw and watch anime and aren't scared of creepy crawlies, are scarce af for some reason :c

[slatyb]

almost no one I know smokes or drinks heavily. But they don’t believe in God either.

[DizzyDesii]

@slatyb if they smoke AT ALL its just a no from me. I would prefer they dont drink at all but im more lenient about it if its not even a monthly thing. Believing in God is a requirement for me. I would prefer they hardly gamed. If they watched anime, so be it as long as they dont expect me to join and aren't trying to cosplay it

[TheSpaceGnome]

@slatyb I want an atheist who doesn't smoke, drink, or do drugs at all.

[TheSpaceGnome]

its easy for me to find non smokers/non druggies, but non alcohol drinkers? the world has gone mad.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea almost everyone drinks. I dont but i tried frozen shots for my 21st bday and man nawl. The smell, the taste, the burn. Im just not a fan of alcohol, not even champagen nor wine. I notice though, Its easier to find non drinkers though if the persons parent was a drunk and they try to stay away from it. But i hated my exes excuse of “im part Cuban. We drink.” Like blah

[TheSpaceGnome]

I just hate alcohol in general, regardless of taste or smells (which I agree are gross af).

People who like alcohol like the effects of alcohol.

Whereas the hyper, energentic, go getter, optimistic, happy, talanted, bubbly, and very smart future wife of mine, would want to:
1. increase/retain cognition.
2. remember things in greater detail or retain her photographic memory.
3. refine motor skills to perfection for art, music, gaming, engineering, etc.
4. heighten inhibitions to be more risk averse.
5. feel stronger emotions and have more acute senses.

She also wouldn't be the type to get ptsd/be traumatized by prior bad situations, or fall victim to being a mopey depressed person or negative pessimist, and her need to know as much as she can possibly cram in her brain would make something that inhibits thinking very unapealing.

Basically the effects of alcohol would be "anti-her", so even wanting it in small amounts would be a red flag, because the right one for me doesn't like it's intended effects, and instead would opt for caffiene, sugar, salt, fat, vitamins, or other stimulants if consuming something that impacts the body's functions.

[BlueScorpio]

I don't drink but I do believe in God so sadly we wouldn't work out but that's if we ever met lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah I'm about as anti-religion as it gets, I'd go into a church and start a science lesson proving their religion wrong if it wouldn't get me in any legal trouble.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I've done enough research that unlike most people I don't question if any religion is true or false, I simply know they are false.

[FilmGuy93]

America has aways had a weird relationship with alcohol.