Is it a weird to never be in love?

[Midgetmcwidget]

I dated before but never loved the person. Is it possible that I’m not built to love or to be loved?

[DannyUk2017]

A common reason that people decide to reject love and romance is that they feel like they won't have their hearts broken if they don't ever date anyone. Usually, the sort of person who would make this kind of decision has seen firsthand what can happen when a relationship goes awry or they end up wondering "why don't people like me?". Some people may begin online therapy to help understand these experiences better. Perhaps they come from a broken home where they had to watch their parents turn against one another. Sometimes divorces or separations can become intensely bitter. Custody battles can take place, which can scar the children involved for the rest of their lives. It makes total sense that someone who saw that sort of thing up close would decide to save themselves from a similar experience.
There is nothing necessarily wrong with this sort of mentality. If you have determined to never fall in love, then, indeed, you're not going to be hurt in the same fashion that your parents were. If this is your reason for not wanting to fall in love, though, then maybe at some point you will change your mind. You may feel as though you never want to open yourself up to love because of the heartache that could result, but if the right person comes along, then you might sing a different tune. Life is long, and despite your convictions, you might want to break your word under the right circumstances.
There are also those individuals who say that they are done with love, or who choose never to experience it because it goes against what they believe to be a divine calling. For instance, nuns of the Catholic church or men who join the priesthood are expected to serve God rather than to have a partner and a family.
In some cases, these individuals experienced love and physical intimacy in the past before they decided to dedicate their lives to a higher calling. It's a difficult decision to make, so it's clear for those who make it that they're devoted fervently to their religion. There are all kinds of other religious orders besides Catholicism where those who serve are also expected never to have families or children.

[Losalt]

To fall in love you have to be willing to let yourself be vulnerable.
And open to love.
It's scary, but it's worth it.

[kylee2437]

Sounds like to me that you pick relationships just to be in them meanwhile not actually liking the person in general.

[d3n0939]

as for the interaction I had with you so far, you seemed to be insecure and you come to conclusions very soon. I guess that has effect on you with your love life. Try to be more chill.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Weird it is not & when it comes to love it’s a choice.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, it happens to the best of us and it's not weird.

[FilmGuy93]

Nope. That's just your trauma trying to justify themselves.

[whiskeyontherocks]

I don’t even believe love exists and I’m in a long term relationship with someone that knows my thoughts on that

[Ironic_Method]

Weird? Yes. But that doesn't mean you can't find someone that works with you and be happy.

[Sky23king]

Yes we all can fall in love. Some it’s really easy some it’s harder, some have been hurt from it so they put up a wall so they don’t hurt again.
When the time is right you will find the right one.

[pizzalovershouse]

Not if you are a non loving person or just never found a love

[OddBeMe]

Ehh, we all have that capacity. Its just chemicals in the brain. But some are harder to tell.

[maximumpower]

Not at all.
Love is overrated and the term thrown around far too easily.

[ochitougly]

Never say never! Your moment will come

[Sixgunsound]

Google what it is to be ace

[Anonymous]

Nope. Most women aren't worthy of it.