Do Asian Men like Black Women?

[xxxkillkittyxxx]

I am asking this for multiple reasons, i have some background information to give you all a feel on the question :

I am a Afro-Latina-Italian-Lebanese , and I grew up in a very diverse area in America. My dating experience has been slim to none but the times I have dated someone they were always a person of color ( Mexican , Asian , African American ) but with that I found my type I think , I feel more comfortable with an Asian man and feel the respect is more important with them than anything but since my last relationship I feel like I am undesirable from all types of men and it made me wonder if my own type even likes me and if I should even try. My friends say I am very confident but i know i have to fake it so they don't think i am hurting too much about my social life. i know i am not Americas beauty standard or any type of Asian beauty standard (fair skin, super skinny, and short) i don't join dating sites or obsess on k pop or fetishism them but i just feel safer and more respected with Asian men , i don't put in my bio Asian men only or things like that so does anyone have any advice or know if Asian men actually like black women , or if any type of man likes a black woman

[JamesDiaz11]

I've rarely ever seen a black (and any mixed with black typically looks black) girl with an Asian guy. If Asian men date outside their race it's typically in pursuit of a Latina, which looks fairly similar to an Asian girl in some aspects.

As a white (passing) guy, I've messed around with a few black girls, but this is mostly because my confidence is high enough to pursue them (most white guys assume they only date black guys), and they only went after white guys anyway. However, this is an even greater hurdle for Asian guys, who tend to not be as masculine/ confident, not to mention Asian people are pretty clanish and tend to hang out primarily with other Asians (which limits their dating pool).

If you want an Asian guy you're probably going to have to approach him- and you may want to play up your feminine, submissive nature; so, they're comfortable with you.

[Ghostluck]

Plenty of men like black women. Plenty of white men like black women. Especially in a world where so many white women are busy fetishising black men, white men have started to turn their backs on white women and started dating black women. Black men fetishize white women as well, so in turn black women seem to be taking an interest in white men. I get hit on by black women a hell of a lot, 20 years ago I could not say that. So something has certainly changed, even if my assessment as to why is wrong. I can't speak for Asian men, but I can say that if you are wanting to try out white men, I don't think you will have a very hard time landing one.

[Emii_Urashima]

I am Japanese and I have noticed that Japanese men are into what they consider exotic women. That can mean any non-asian woman. (Our country is nearly 99% Japanese with most of the remainder being Korean and Chinese) I am also in Tokyo, which has a lot of foreign tourists and foreigners working, and there are people of nearly every race here. I have seen Japanese and Korean men with black women, often. It is not so common with Chinese men, though.

[lilyanony1]

In my experience they'll mess around with you but they won't marry you.

It's a rarity and you have to really connect.

[Berethor]

Asians tend to care about fair skin more than whites, it hard to find a date as a black woman.

[anylolone]

"I dated all these men but I think I'm not desirable enough"

Woman, you have better luck with Asian men than most back dudes have with black women. And black women are champions of ingroup preference.

[zagor]

Well my friend has an Asian father and a black mother so apparently some do.

[U4ea0]

Not many people like black men.

[monkeynutts]

Yeah put some fish sauce, or soy on them.

[Iron_Man]

I think they’re into their own people

[Anonymous]

No, I never liked black women

[Anonymous]

If you have a vagina sure

[Anonymous]

Unlikely I would think.