You don't have to read any of this to answer the question by the way. I know it's really long...
I've been a switch for most of my life and looking back, it was very hard for me to balance my desire to be submissive occasionally with my relatively masculine personality.
I would say that I'm a nice guy in the sense that I have strong principals. I can be stubborn about certain things which sometimes probably becomes my biggest fault. But I also like to read about a lot of stuff, like computers, math, physics, psychology, trade skills, law etc. Like I could have a long, intelligent conversation with someone who works in any of these fields.
I'm fairly athletic too, I'll get some people together and set up a baseball or football game. I'll usually either be a tight end or a qb cuz I'm hard to take down.
I like to go on long drives late at night with a blunt. I work very hard, even though I don't always look like I do. People say I have a very chill/soothing personality and am funny. Which I find crazy because I have a really short temper for certain things. Not that I've ever hurt someone who wasn't some kind of threat.
The reason I ask this question is because I've never really felt like I understood what was in it for the woman to be dominant. So I'm curious if a pattern comes up.
