What type of woman do you want?

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TheBMG · Accepted Answer

I’m going with in between. I’ve dated a girl that was easy to get and did most anything I wanted. It was great for a while, but then got hard because she wanted me to decide on everything. Dinner, date night, what I wanted her to wear, how I wanted her to wear her hair. She was not being herself.

Later, I dated and married the opposite. She’s very independent individual. She does pretty much what she wants and I’m constantly left with being included or not included in what she wants to do. Don’t get me wrong, she’s very loving, but shows it in a totally different way.

Hind sight is 20/20. Sometimes I wish I had someone in the middle of both extremes. However, I’m vested now.

Aakash_Hangargi · Accepted Answer

A pink one 🤣

Moose304 · Answer

At 63 I am way beyond long lifetime relationships. I want a girl who is a lady and acts like one. If she wants to take a walk hand in hand along the beach I am that guy. If she wants to go to a sports bar and hang out during an event like a football game I am that guy. I don't like drama or games. Just wanting to be with me is really all I ask. If you can't do that I rather you stay away from me. I long ago come to realize I have more days in my rearview mirror than in my windshield. I'm OK with that knowledge.

t-8900 · Answer

The one who will hold me tightly to her heart when I'm crying and comforting me and not judging me. The one who sees my heart, listens to my words, and sees my merits over what I offer monetarily or how much status I bring. That's the one I'll fall madly in love with.

SeekingSubmission · Answer

Personally I only want women who are smart enough to know that it's one thing to make a guy work a little for a relationship and the sex, but there's also a such thing as making a guy work too hard. Especially the sex, cause if you make a guy work too hard for that he will lose interest...

Sex is isn't just an expression of emotion and attraction!

SEX is also a bonding activity or exersize to help build and increase the relationship and friendship with your partners.
Sometimes we are stressed out and just need a friend...
Sometimes we need connection...

most times are simply just horny and want it..

Ascarymanasks · Answer

I want someone who can play games back and forth with me chasing her and vice versa but I also want to actually end up with her so she also must give a little leeway. I want a girl attractive, caring, sense of humor, pretty loyal, has a fun personality and can match my energy.

humanearth · Answer

I like independent strong willed women that don't need a man, but wants a man.

I like women that can take care of things when I am not around.

Say like I'm on the road for work and be gone for weeks.

Water pipe breaks she can fix it

mobiusforniner · Answer

A woman with dignity and self respect. A woman who is independent, intelligent, and resolute; isn't afraid to stand up for me or what she believes in. But she is also kind, and tender hearted. She thinks of others more than herself.

ARWINGx1 · Answer

<Chooses In Between>
Now, on paper, "Easy to get" may sound tempting, but there's also a chance that if she's TOO easy/"Adaptive", then it'd feel less like I'm actually dating a human... if you know what I mean?

ZackBan · Answer

There is nothing attractive about a hard to get woman I promise you.

People just want to be happy and live normally and have normal experiences yet some people enjoy playing games and make things hard for everyone.

Not saying I want a woman super easy to get but I definitely want one who also likes me and this will respond positively to my advances

TheBootyChest · Answer

I clicked easy to get. By that I mean that I want to find a woman who isn't into playing games like a "standard amount of time to wait between..."

I am into her and I am going to give her my full attention until I feel like we aren't a match anymore. If she isn't down with that, then I'm gonna bounce ASAP.

JSmuve · Answer

I want a woman who's easy to get to know. Too many try to play hard to get in order to paper over their insecurities and lack of social skills but it just comes off as being disinterested. Give me a girl that puts in effort but doesn't jump into the sack quickly with every guy who shows interest.

Concordio · Answer

Hard to get:
1) makes achieving the end goal sweeter
2) means that she really wants to be with you, not just some one time thing
3) means she's likely to be swayed by other guys, so less likely to cheat

Hard to get for me means making me put in the effort. Leading someone on or playing games without intending to test if the man is worthy for a realtionship isn't playing hard to get, that's a type of exploitation.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

The one I'm with, I reckon.
I never had specific ideas. I just looked at who was coming along, and made a decision for myself if -overall- I can agree; or not.
Where I basically never was interested in ladies who ''play games'' - so it's neither hard-to-get nor easy-to-get. I would not call that ''in-between'', but rather... ''outside''?

Recurrence · Answer

I’ve never understood this. Like, if we get along easily, isn’t that a good thing? Like if someone’s “hard to get” doesn’t that mean you’re less compatible?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I like a woman who is easy to get but keeps her legs closed. My type of woman is friendly and open. She just maintains boundaries.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Hard to get but a Woman who believes in God and does not take the Lord's name in vain

Anonymous · Answer

Cheap low grade guys are going to say easy to get. They have little to offer and they don’t want to be bothered with stepping it up.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Easy to get. I'd prefer a woman to pursue me, as normally men are expected to. Sometimes, I like the idea of flipping the script a little and for me, it would show that a woman is interested.

Toast792 · Answer

As long as I like her overall personality, I don't really care..

Better_off_here · Answer

a woman who has respect for herself and me, and can be able to be herself with me.

OddBeMe · Answer

Sheltered hard to get, funny. Freaky in bed, takes a joke, and keeps me on my toes.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Let's see, pretty, with a brain, tits, a pussy, sexy legs, eyes, she's GOTTA have eyes, a nice ass and she HAS to know how to cook, clean and do other womanly stuff.

InferiorElegy · Answer

If I thought there was any chance I could find one, I'd want a female who could and would love me for me and show me what love is and what it feels like but there are reasons why that female doesn't exist.

jamesgoldman · Answer

To quote Billy Joel 'Paul is a real estate novelist who never had time for a wife' So far I don't have time for a wife but could get real estate in time

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

That woman who if came to mind, could beat the sh*t out of at least two men at a time.

syskerully · Answer

Easy to get, because there are a lot of really filthy things I want do to her and I feel like sluts are the most convenient way to make that happen. Speaking from experience.

Joshua0213 · Answer

In between, like if she gives out sex on the first few dates hell no. But if we are enjoying are time together I wouldn't want to have to wait over 3 months for it.

Anonymous · Answer

I have given up on women and know that they are incapable of being loyal. They are only loyal as long as we are constantly checking off the endless boxes they have and change constantly.

So I just look for easy disposable pussy now.

TrillXHippy · Answer

I really do not know anymore. September - November this girl was playing games with me the entire time

Anonymous · Answer

Easy to get. Childfree businesswoman or career lady. No, I'm not broke.

Grubhub · Answer

In between. Women who are easy to get aren’t always easy. Women who’ve approached me refused to perform certain duties I’ve requested. Some of them

zagor · Answer

I don't consider those valid categories for what I want in a woman.

Nigjt · Answer

I want someone who wants to make things last. God Bless

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

A cute and loving girl :)

Shiningtempest · Answer

@jennifer_bloom I'd prefer easy to get because it would mean less stress in dating.

ElvenMr · Answer

In between. But more importantly.. a kind and understanding, supporting woman.

collie22 · Answer

seems nothing worth having is that easy

Staximus · Answer

I don't want a woman that just settles for anybody

Anonymous · Answer

Between in between and easy to get. But she has to be a very special woman for me to want to get to know her

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

I'm still trying to find a better job.

Finchie40 · Answer

Loyal trusting one

jiffyjeff1029 · Answer

A female.

Kelly6 · Answer

I’m easy to get women lol

Simonitro · Answer

An awesome girl!

ChiTown33 · Answer

A decent human being.

legalboxers · Answer

E) someone NORMAL

Nerdvana · Answer

I am 102, can I vote for just alive?

boobliker · Answer

a very nice one is my first

Anonymous · Answer

Who loves me a lot of

AviatorTom · Answer

One that breathes...

najekim · Answer

Living, breathing with a brain between her ears.

Sam85226 · Answer

I'm happy with anyone

emperor90 · Answer

I want someone who matches my energy

AkshiJanjua · Answer

A good person

Anonymous · Answer

I just want a pretty one

Anonymous · Answer

Easy to understand, I have enough trouble as is.

DrHonesty · Answer

Alive

Wise4myage · Answer

Definitely A.

EaterPeter · Answer

@jennifer_bloom 🙂

notwoke · Answer

non westernized

Cowboy6666 · Answer

In between.

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