Would you bother unsending your message if you realized they’re dating?

[Bratz1211]

Guys if you reply/compliment a girls story you’ve been speaking to but don’t have a label on, and then she posts something about a date, would you unsend the message cause you realise she’s dating now?

[ohsheeT]

No I would still send the message I mean I'm sending it to her because maybe have a reason that she made me feel or something that she might have said or done I don't think it has anything to do with it a boyfriend or dating somebody I guess I don't know I'm not sure about the question I guess

[Sandeeppingping]

I would if I'm actually interested, if not I wouldn't give a shit, but since that I care yea I would

[PJH359]

Life is too short not to let your feelings be known. Who knows…maybe he’s not completely happy in his current situation. If He knows that another really nice girl is interested maybe he would change his situation.

[rabbitzzz]

Unsending message? that's some girly shits.

[Beardedman1996]

Bowing out when someone’s in a relationship is one thing, sometimes it seems cowardly but guys don’t like competing with guys, he might ghost ya but it’s unclear

[Bratz1211]

Can u pls answer my recent questions thanks. U seem to know what ur talking about

[MrPickles13]

No, as I would assume I would know then and I'm either replying to something they put on there story like a question or maybe complimenting a friend and I see no issues with either

[Bratz1211]

What if you liked her? Would u get jealous and remove it or still leave it

[MrPickles13]

I wouldn't remove it even if I was jealous. At that point you have a few options. Stay friends, confess your feelings. Or remove yourself from the situation.

I would personally always try to go for staying friends as at least I wouldn't want to lose that friendship.

[Einzelgeist]

yes because I don't want to look like an ass by accidentally getting involved in someone's relationship.

[Sixgunsound]

For those of us too old to know what having a label on means, what is this about?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, most likely I wouldn't bother knowing she's dating someone.

[Havthrills]

I wouldn't unsend unless it was a naked pic. I would still send messages

[alance99]

If it is general compliment then i wouldn't unsend it

[Bratz1211]

What If you liked her? Then she posted she’s dating

[alance99]

I would stop sending it after i get know about it

[Bratz1211]

Would u unsend the message?

[alance99]

No i won't unsend it but i wouldn't send any further message in future

Coz the first message i sent her was a general compliment and doesn't prove my liking towards her

[SwimmerMuscle2000]

I wouldn’t unsend the message. As long as my message was on a friendly/respectful basis I wouldn’t delete it

[TheAfrikan]

They are gone so I wouldn’t waste my time unsending them texts.

[Bklynbadboy12]

No I wouldn't unsend my message cause there just dating not in a full on committed relationship

[anton_dee]

Yes i would

[Bratz1211]

Why would you?

[anton_dee]

To make my intentions clear to her