I usually see a lot of girls say they dislike getting approach depending on the place they are at or what they are doing...
so im wondering girls what places do you think are the best for guys to approach you? If you are taken just answer this as if you were single. could be a bar, a club, maybe at the mall or at a concert.
And guys if you want to answer. say where you like to approach women most often?
If you are gorgeous, anywhere you want (except the gym, that’s just gross) if you are unattractive, then nowhere! Seriously, I think there is a massive problem with guys who have no self awareness and think they stand a chance with women who are WAAAAY out of their league. If you are a 3 or 4, why on earth would you start coming onto an 8? If you are well over 30 or even over 40 why would you come onto an 18 or 19 year old? Seriously it’s gross. Unless she’s a gold digger, or seriously emotionally unstable, no 18, 19, or 20 year old wants anything to do with guys who are pushing 30, let alone 40. (And all of this was told to me by a guy, by the way) but it’s so true, there seems to be an epidemic of people with no ability to look in the mirror and say “nope! That’s completely unrealistic, I need to reevaluate my dating strategy, and find someone on MY level who will love and appreciate me for who I am”. Did you know that 30% of of 30yo men in the west are either virgins, or haven’t had sex in the past year? But they continue to go after the top 20% of good looking women! It’s delusional! And we women are no better. Most women demand a man over 6ft, but in the U. S only 14% of men are 6ft tall or over… That’s just delusional! Even if 20% of men were over 6ft, they are going to go out with the top 20% of women, the 8’s, 9’s, and the 10’s! So if you are a 7 or below.. re-adjust your expectations! Oh, and ladies, guys don’t want to marry a woman who’s slept w/ 25 other men before him. Most guys don’t want a woman w/ a body count over 10! So think about that before you “hook-up” with some stranger on Friday! Seriously, it’s called a dildo, look it up and buy one! You would be amazed what a good masturbation session does for your need to hook-up! Because while women control sex, MEN control relationships, and since women want relationships, maybe your grandma’s idea of putting an aspirin between your knees, wasn’t so bad after all! Not and answer, but… it’s honest 🤷🏼♀️
Yes/maybe to beach parties, sporting events with friends at bars, meetup events, gathering at friends homes ( as long as he wasn’t a creep)
Maybe to grocery shopping , library
No to work, gym,
Absolutely not when I’m buying underwear/bras (this has happened)
Usually at group events (party, beach, study group) or the gym, but I've never really approached a stranger. I always knew them as friends or acquaintances before I asked them out. The only time I got a stranger's number was actually my spouse, and that time she initiated it lol.
I guess in that case, if you see someone looking like they could use a hand go see what's going on and if you can help. Usually a conversation will start. Won't necessarily lead to a date, but you can make a new acquaintance from it.
Its not about where it's about who. If your not super attractive women will never be ok with you approaching them, dosen't matter when or where. You will always be that creepy guy unless your rocking a 6 pack and massive biceps.
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I'm happy just getting approached so I'm not super picky. I can't speak for other women since I'm only blessed enough to get hit on once every 5-10 years 😂
Joking aside, I'm simple. If a guy approaches me in places I like going to, such as: the park, anime or video game cons/meets... I'm elated because we have something in common.
The gym is actually fine with me- IF I'm not busy with a set, or wearing headphones. Better still, just come run or walk with me if I'm doing cardio- just don't slow me down.
Not at the grocery store! Believe it or not, I'm actually grumpy when I'm spending money on food (because prices 😐). And absolutely not at my job! I work at a hospital so it's not exactly professional to flirt with patients or on the job
School, work, mall, movies, gas station, sports game, church, grocery store... anywhere really but do it while im alone or with a friend. Its awkward when they hit on you in front of fam, ask for your numb, and when you say no, they ask your mom or sibling out right after 😂
Most places if the guy isn't weird but I honestly prefer not to be approached. If I like the guy, I'll walk up to him.
As a rule of thumb any location where it's acceptable to start a conversion with a random stranger is a good starting point.
If he's cute and not old enough to be my dad, anywhere besides places like dark alleys, elavators etc. Otherwise, don't bother.
I don't really wanna be approached by any randos, thank you very much 😏
s At this moment I don't want to be approached at any place.
Meeting women at the local library seems to do it for me
Meeting women in grocery stores like cashiers has worked a little
Meeting girls working as nurses at the Doctors seem to work somewhat
Bars, parks, beach, grocery store. Ill agree with some of you here, the gym is not the place, as a 40 year old I go back 5-10 years on age and that's my personal cut off limit.
I will not approach women while I'm at work.. I try to be professional. But out side of work pretty much any where that OK to hold a conversation in os a good place
I don't like approaching people I don't know or have business with. In the twilight zone reality that I'm ever approached, it would probably be a bookstore or mall.
u Around here: about anywhere.
Guys can approach me anywhere.
I don't approach women.
We don’t do that here
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