Why are short men supposed to only search for shorter women?

[wowop99266]

It bothers me so much when almost any type of advice to short men is summed up in, "Just go for the girls that are shorter than you".

"Oh you're a short man? At best you can find very short women."

"Oh you wouldn't mind dating a taller woman? Who cares, focus on women shorter than you!"

[MCheetah]

Because society (mainly women) sees us as "inferior." Thus, we're told to "stick to ur own kind." Ironically though; that's horrible advice as most women are short (under 5'7") and short women are the most desirable to tall men (6'1" and over).

So they're telling you to go after the women who are most desired and least likely to date you. At least some tall women will give you a shot; even if they reluctantly still want a guy five inches taller than them at 6'6"+.

If you're short (< 6') and not willing to simp or be a b*tch-boy to a woman, give it up. You have no chance and cannot win.

[wowop99266]

Salute to you Cheetah, glad to see you weigh in on this.

I agree with what you said, although I don't think short women are the most desirable just for being short. I've seen plenty of short women who were undesirable, not talking specifically about physical.

A woman's height has little to no effect to her value like it does a man's, and society knows it, so society will definitely never tell us short men to go after the most desireable of women, for it's understood that the most desireable women want exclusively tall men and society will try to protect desireable women from us undesireable short men.

Society tells us, "Just find whatever you can find and be happy with that."

[d3n0939]

@mcheetah lol funny pic

[RolandCuthbert]

But that ain't truth. I have a good friend, who is a short Puerto Rican male.

I don't know anyone who gets more puddingtang than he. And he is 5'4". I have dated beautiful women before. But movie star looks don't always attract my attention. He seemingly dated nothing but models before he got married.

[AssholeNumberOne]

Damn that's toxic. Date whoever you want, bro. And it ain't even true that women want taller men, I'm short for my age and not likely to grow ever again. Do you know how hard it is to find guys at my eye level or shorter?
Which is actually what I'd prefer. Shorter than me being the best

[Msputiton]

That's that old school mentality that teaches everyone to stay in there lane and follow rules that make no sense

[likelyOK]

There is no rule I know a couple tall women with shorter partners

[wowop99266]

There kind of is a rule actually. If there wasn't, so many women wouldn't abide by their "no short men" requirement.

[HighValue]

I am tall and like short girls. I think short guys should have better luck with tall girls because the tall guys often don't go for them.

[JosyJosy]

You've missed a good bit of advice here on this site then.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I once had a taller girl (like 15cm taller) be really interested in me. Didn't lead to anytging though due to distance