How to find your interests as it's the best way to meet people in real life?

[RV2121]

Online dating is scam for men and offline dating will work if you join a good club or social group but it's impossible if you don't know what your interests are.

[CallmeTheKnight]

That's the point of getting out. Nobody can approach or be available to talk to you if all you do is stay in the house and comfort zone.

I get approached in the grocery store by the amount and type of food. I can discuss recipes, benefits of certain foods, and even skills in the kitchen with any woman.
I can go to a book or novelty store and have a conversation about books with any woman.

I can go to the gym and strike up a conversation with a woman that's been checking me out for the longest.

Bro it just depends on where you go, the knowledge you have, and how you make your approach or receive an approach. Most of all, it's based on confidence, not arrogance.

[RV2121]

Thanks

[NottaNatty]

Just go out and start trying new things even if they are uncomfortable you might find that you like them, and if you don't then don't do it agai. Then can branch off of the things that you did like and maybe find other things in that category. It's a win-win-win cuz now you have something new you like, it's a conversation starter and now you can find friends with similar interests but you got to get out there first. Good luck bro!!

[RV2121]

Thanks will try

[NottaNatty]

Yah man!

[WhitneySnow]

You’re not wrong. What do you like to do? Some girls like hiking. Some like Marvel movies. Some like cooking. These are just a few examples.

[RV2121]

I don't like or enjoy anything. Just like to take a peaceful walk in evening

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe take up hiking. That’s like walking but more adventurous.

[RV2121]

Sure will try

[WhitneySnow]

Cool

[Dazed0N0Confused]

You go out & try a bunch of things & see which ones you like/dislike & which ones you want to continue or you never have to do again.

[RV2121]

Yes true will see what can be done

[OlderAndWiser]

"Online dating is scam for men" Perhaps that is your experience but many guys have great success with online dating. It differs from meeting women IRL and those things you do meeting a woman in person don't necessarily work online.

However, most guys who say that online dating is all a scam get quite angry and insistent whenever someone challenges their assertion. If that is the gist of your response, don't bother.

[Part2603]

No, it's pretty shit. Why bother messaging a dozen girls and getting one reply when you can walk into any Starbucks in America and they'll be half a dozen basic bitches there to do REAL game on?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Part2603 Okay, it doesn't work for you. So hang at Starbucks. But, meanwhile, plenty of people ARE finding people online. If I was single, I cold go on zoosk or POF, send some messages, and have a date by this Friday or Saturday night. Done it many times.

[RV2121]

All stats are against men in online dating so online dating being scam is not my opinion but a fact

[OlderAndWiser]

In your mind only.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, I been through online thing three different go around with it. Yeah, I had some sucess, meaning I got laid. Dated one for 8 months, but at my age it dies seem all the ladies my age are all a little off thier rocker.

Problem is I spend 90% at work or at home and there aren't any available women. I thought about club or hobby route, and I have some good ones... but then you got to deal with the group dynamics and I don't have much patience with that type of thing.

[RV2121]

Yes you're better than 90% men who at least got some success with online

[DaveJord]

Yeah I guess, but these ladies don't offer a whole lot. They all. want committed long term relationships but have no clue how to be in one..
. and ones that do aren't single or divored with multiple children living at home at 45.

[RV2121]

True words

[Guy13]

www.meetup.com search hobby or interests and meet like people. REAL PEOPLE…with real friends if you don’t care for them personally. 😎

[RV2121]

Will try

[Guy13]

👍👍

[AsaKyo]

I don't know why you would even use a dating website in the first place

[RV2121]

It's the only way for most people nowadays

[Aerolyn]

People say just go to social gatherings where people meet up for the sake of similar intrests.

Like conventions and stuff.

[RV2121]

When you're not interested in anything you can't do it

[Chazmatazz269]

Haha! You DISCOVER interests through experience. You don’t develop them through choices.

[RV2121]

I work at a permanent work from home job and don't have any way of finding my interest through experience

[Chazmatazz269]

Your work isn’t consuming all of your time, is it? In your free time, you go and do things; alone or with other people. Join some clubs or groups that center around common interests. Read some books, watch some videos and take some classes. Your interests will emerge through experience.

[JustiReno]

If you don’t know what your interests are you should go to school (and take it serious), there’s even females to be found on campus as well 👍

[RV2121]

I'm past the age of education and want to keep on working for now.

[zagor]

Used to be some singles groups I went camping and skiing and such with that were a good place to meet, but they seem to have mostly dissolved since Covid, or even before that.

[RV2121]

Yes covid accelerated the decline in dating

[Light909090]

Humanity needs another Evolution for Humans to Be able to have good relationships

[RV2121]

Yes we're living in the last days

[CuriousMufuxka]

How do you not know what your interests are? I can totally understand not knowing her interests..

[RV2121]

This happens when you have a boring life like me.

Can't do much about it

[Anonymous]

Try out, language learner. You have an excellent excuse to talk to women.

[RV2121]

Will try

[Jamesshinobi]

you should go online amd ask a bunch of straingers to figure oit what you are interested in...

[RV2121]

You're good at sarcasm

[Anonymous]

That's what I always wonder

[RV2121]

Same here