Can a relationship work out between a 38 year old divorced man and a 25 year old female that has never dated?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Nothing is wrong with an age gap relationship, but one like this makes me leery. Too often, when an older guy chooses a woman around your age, it’s because the women (or woman, like his ex) won’t tolerate traits and behavioral issues that a younger, more naive girl may tolerate. Secondly, since you have no relationship experience and he clearly does, he may use the opportunity to sculpt you into a partner fit for him, without really considering whether it’s healthy, practical or realistic. You would feel inclined to believe and go along with these things since you have nothing to compare this or that to. This gives him the grounds to be toxic, and you wouldn’t even know any better. Moral of the story is that if you pursue a relationship with the older man then be careful, use your good judgment and if anything seems odd, don’t hesitate to seek advice from someone who’s also older, like your mom.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Why do you the same question with a slight variation on the age range?

[Asker]

Wtf 😒 is wrong with you? It's literally the first time I ask. Fucking retard.

[Anonymous]

It could. Almost all things are possible. Just keep in mind if he has kids w his ex and she’s a B-I-Itch she’s going to make things bad for both of you. Especially if she has custody of the kids. If they divorced on good terms things will probably be good. Also if he’s paying alimony and/or child support that could also have an affect on the relationship. Maybe he divorced her and she’s still in love w him, or vice versa. Maybe she divorced him because he was a complete asshole. There’s a lot to consider here. Not all older men are assholes, some just had it rough maybe w a woman who was just a mess. Maybe she cheated. As I mentioned before there is a lot to consider.

[d3n0939]

Why do you want the baggage if you are a virgin? You could find someone younger than you too

[Topaz1979]

the 38 year old man may have baggage and he may not be as good of a boyfriend to the girl because he has been hurt b love before so she must enter at her own risk.

[Topaz1979]

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[FilmGuy93]

Nah. That's a great way to get used.