What can a guy if he makes out with a girl and later she’s telling people he touched her without consent?

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In fact I just wanted to kiss and she wanted more.

Truthatanycost · Accepted Answer

This is what you do. Firstly remember where you come from and who made you. Then pray Psalm 91. Here is some of what I would use:

'He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High

will abide in the shadow of the Almighty. a

2 I will say to the LORD, “You are my refuge and my fortress,

my God, in whom I trust.”

3 Surely He will deliver you

from the snare of the fowler,

and from the deadly plague.

4 He will cover you with His feathers;

under His wings you will find refuge;

His faithfulness is a shield and rampart.

5 You will not fear the terror of the night,

nor the arrow that flies by day,

6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness,

nor the calamity that destroys at noon.'

And pray Isaiah 54:17 (I like the New International Version) (Or any other you

'No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and this is their vindication from me,” declares the LORD.'

Then remember this lesson, and remember the dangers of temporary / casual pleasure, particularly when you haven't vetted the person, or qualified them before sharing a part of yourself with them.

Sandeeppingping · Accepted Answer

Damn man that's a shitty ass situation, people who have even a little problem with you like just dislike you a bit will call you a creep and a rapist because of that bitch, the way I see it look at how many people she's said it to and how many believe her, then act accordingly, my guess would be that the people who believed her will suddenly just tell you don't do that or worse call you what I said above, then tell your side defend yourself and hell if she's there call her out fuck that bitch, stuff like that ruin a man's reputation wth

KarinMcDonald · Accepted Answer

I guess it depends on what your view of what "consent" actually means. If she's kissing you, that is not "consent" to grab her in private places. And depending on her age, she may be afraid to say no.

VaguelyAsianLisbeth · Accepted Answer

The type of people who *do* mistreat others in this way have patterns and do such things repeatedly. If you continue being a good, respectful person, that is the story people will believe.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

That's the potential problem in making out with someone you barely know. They may be crazy, or may be malicious.

USLegionary · Answer

Often when women feel rejected or ashamed they "withdraw" their consent. It's horseshit of course. Best thing to do is avoid her and tell your side of the story. Keep an ear out because she may have a history of false allegations

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NathanDavis · Answer

that would depend on many factors but to me it is simple

her made up story... and my factual story

people know me well, I wasn't born yesterday... I already have a reputation that is well known, they would just simply not believe her... now if she wanted to take this to the authorities then the same applies, she will tell her story and I will tell the truth, and then I guess it is up to the authorities to keep asking further questions and try to figure out who is the one telling lies, and it would not be me so... that's that

other than that, I just don't go around making out with people I don't know... I simple would not place myself in the position for these things to happen, but that's besides the point though, lol

WhitneySnow · Answer

I’m sorry this happened to you. I’m not sure what you can do except tell your side of the story.

loves2learn · Answer

Sorry what is the question? You need to make sure she consents first.

LazerBean · Answer

You can tell your side of the story, but otherwise there isn'tuch else you can do.

monkeynutts · Answer

It could look bad for your reputation, it's not a very nice thing to do, unless she tells the cops that and presses charges, it doesn't really matter, just move on to something better.

Anonymous · Answer

This is why I only hook up at sex clubs and BDSM dungeons, there's always witnesses.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Just be confident about it which would be easy because you're not the one who's lying and people will notice it and believe you

AssholeNumberOne · Answer

That girl's a piece of shit.

EaterPeter · Answer

This consent sh*t is tricky. There should be some form to sign. And breathalyzer test before that or urine test.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

If all else fails, offer her a donut

Jouth · Answer

sounds like the guy was in the wrong

Anonymous · Answer

Get used to the taste of prison food, I guess

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