WHICH BOY DO U THINK IS THE BEST FIT?

[abby2948]

Which boy?


Boy number one (M)-
Sweet
5’3 (im 5’5)
Respectful (kinda)
Finds my friends annoying
Goes to different school
Most popular guy at his school
Cousins with one of my friends
Dirty blonde hair
Good at hockey
A little racist (huge red flag)
Homophobic
Lives a couple mins away from me
(Same town)

Boy number 2-
Sweet
Respectful
Really cute
Amazing hair
Dirty blonde hair
Most popular guy at his school
Lives a hour and ten mins away
Friends with my friends
Funny
Vapes
Into things like investing (which I want to learn)
Really good at hockey
5’10 (I think) (I’m 5’5)
Homophobic

[WonderBell99]

Do you REALLY want to choose between two crappy guys? If I were you, I'd choose neither because both of them seem immature and prejudiced to me. I have friends who are a part of the LGBTQ community, I cannot tolerate homophobia. If a boyfriend of mine hated my friends because of their sexual orientation, that's an immediate turn off because I would choose my friends over anyone.

I can understand the hype about dating someone who is popular and has a good reputation and all, but think about this, do you really want to date someone who is filled with malice and hatred? I cannot tolerate racism either because I have friends from different ethnicities, and I have faced racism myself (though it has only been limited to online interactions).

Vaping is a turn off too. But I suppose I could let it go if he only vaped occasionally and did not smell like vape. I guess out of this, the second guy seems better.

[abby2948]

yes thank u I refuse to date somebody who is rasist but however I was raised to think LGBTQ+ is wrong (it’s not) I don’t support it but I would NEVER ever say something to them and would keep my thoughts to myslef and be respectful because overall their not hurting anybody

[abby2948]

as well as where pretty young vaping idc about as long as it’s not a addiction and thank u for taking the time to comment by the way!! 🫶

[WonderBell99]

All right. I guess you have made your choice, second guy it is then! I wish you well. All the best!

[abby2948]

thank u so much ur so sweet I wish u the best have a nice day!!!

[WonderBell99]

No worries! Have a great day as well (:

[abby2948]

thank u 🫶

[ohsheeT]

Ok well you're not going to like this answer that neither one I can tell you right now if you had a magic wand and you got to spend 30 days with each one of them you will find that neither one of them are good for you if you could see your future play out in front of you you would find out that they are the worst thing in the world for you but I know you're not going to listen but I had to try


Don't be in such a hurry to go nowhere it's the last thing in the world you want to do is find a boy that you think is best fit for you you need to have a boyfriend you who is in love with you who can't live without you

[Berethor]

As if you care about anything other than their height, girls want tall boys. :)

[abby2948]

I do care about more then heught but I really like tall guys

[Berethor]

Like most girls, the first guy don't have much of a chance, because he short.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[abby2948]

agreed but that’s not the only reason I think the 2 guy the second guy is getting his life together where the other one isn’t

[Chill_Thoughts]

Well there are good and bad things about both, but at your age that distance really is a big deal. I'd go for the one that is close, you'd have a much better and more active relationship

[abby2948]

that is true but I’m really feeling like the second guy is the one and more like me also first guy first guy doesn’t like my friends and no offense but height really does matter to me I’ll legit get teased for dating somebody shorter. Also ik it’s far but I think I could make it work

[Sandeeppingping]

These dudes are based af, racist anf homophobic gotta love it

[abby2948]

I do NOT support being rasist at all and it’s a HUGE ick for me and I’m actually mad at that guy rn but with the homophobic both of them don’t go up to people who r apart of the LGBTQ+ community and say anything they just don’t support it nether do I but I would never say something to that community because that’s disrespectful. But with the rasist I will not date somebody rasist

[gerald5466]

if you won't date anyone racist then why are you even asking who is the better fit if you obviously won't date boy number 1?

[Sandeeppingping]

@abby2948 I mean at least they're honest about it and it's like they hate you, so who cares really

[abby2948]

Um why ru saying they hate me

[Sandeeppingping]

Ohhhh shit I meant "And it's not like they hate you", my main point is that it doesn't matter who they don't like as long as they care about you

[abby2948]

Ohh I was gonna say wtf but makes sense lmwo thabk u I think 2 I should go with

[gerald5466]

neither both sound boring af

[abby2948]

Wait how

[gerald5466]

they play hockey and they are both short

[Anonymous]

Yeah America is screwed. 🤦‍♂️

[abby2948]

Canada actally

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I’ve seen what a Leftist hell hole your country has turned into.

Ya gonna delete that one, mods? Is it okay to criticize other countries, or are we only allowed to shit on the USA?

[pizzalovershouse]

Which ever treats you right

[Anonymous]

Both are boring

[abby2948]

hmm not to me!