Is it true you shouldn’t be too nice to women?

[Anonymous]

I saw in a video that a woman said that nice will never equal them being turned on or attracted to you.

[Anonymous]

No, being nice is fine. But you should never give control over to a woman. A man always stays in control. Now that may seem like being nice to some. But any woman that takes niceness for softness is not a good woman. And he should immediately kick her to the curb.

[Asker]

So never ask them what they want to do on a date?

[Opinion Owner]

Well I'd shoot for the middle. I always have something planned. You can ask, but most the time they want you to lead.

[Sandeeppingping]

True, I say one shouldn't be too nice with whomever you're dealing with, just act adequately according to your relationship with that person and that's it, only time you can be nice really is when she thinks you're a complete asshole like almost hates you and then you're nice to her, that's the only time I can think of where it's a good thing...

[laraWM]

Of course it is not the same but it doesn't imply you shouldn't be nice.

I don't even have interest in guys if they are not nice to me

[Anonymous]

That is the biggest bullshit lie that gets spread around far too much. No wonder so many guys are single these days. It is just sad.

[msc545]

If you are too nice they will take advantage of you even more than they usually do, which is a lot anyway.

[Anonymous]

You should be nice and respectful to everyone

[BLP11520]

I am who I am so being nice I will never change

[Shamalien]

It’s true.