Women: why should us nice guys and good guys be nice to you?

[DragonLord]

women please bear with me OK it just came to me in a few moments ago this question is for women only I don't understand this so women please be honest OK so why should us nice guys and good guys be nice to you it's turn you women off if you wanted to know what I mean read these two pages on this link very very carefully OK here is the link link and you have sex with jerks thugs players whatever then you complain so why should us nice guys and good guys be nice to you and some of us get left overs and you refuse to keep your legs shut until marriage I'm saving my virginity until marriage I'm sure there guys who do the same as me so grow up it's not funny anymore what is the point to be nice to you and the second part is is it true nice guys/good guys finish last ladies please be completely honest with us nice guys and good guys with these questions and is there any hope for us nice guys and good guys and I'm hoping nice guys and good guys read your answers you gave us thanks for your understanding and thanks for your patients

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for the link I gave in these questions make sure read both of the pages one and two very very carefully then answer this question

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and if I'm wrong or the link is not true then give me or any other nice guys and good guys prove by giving us at least a link or a prove to show us I'm wrong and I will take it back and I'm gladly to apologize but if there is no prove then I might not take it back and I might not to apologize if I'm wrong I take it back and I apologize and if I'm mean or offensive I'm sorry all I want is the truth and we like to know is there any hope for us nice guys and good guys

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I'm damn proud of being nice but women find it a turn off the link is prove what I mean if I was mean or offensive I'm sorry I want to know what we suppose to do hit you ladies whatever to get you to like us nice guys and good guys so I'm sorry it just bothers me and I want the truth why is a woman turn off if we are nice and you think that's a lie then why being nice is a turn off

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and ladies I'm sorry from bottom of my heart I'm just confuse of what the hell is going on I like to know what is going on and yet she complains about her mistreatment,she crys things like that please understand I'm not a jerk I like the truth if you don't mind shed some light on this

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ladies I'm sorry I mean most women want a bad men what's up with that

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everyone thanks for you answers and thanks for your understanding and thanks for your patients if it was mean or offensive I'm sorry and I also notice all the nice guys and good guys get rejected or frame she thinks he is too nice those most women need to speak up and speak from the heart anyway since most women did this to themselves it's messed up if you understand what I mean so thanks for your help

[djmzes]

Whatever you gonna say will change nothing...
It is a cycle that will always continue

Nice guys get ignored by girls, turned into jerks...
Immature college and university Girl get fucked by those jerks and newly created one and girls date them
Society laughs at virgin and put pressure on everyone to lose it and most of regret but hide it.

After being mentally broken down, realisation and reality checks came in, girls stop messing around and try to find the love at real place, but sadly nothing remained or even some nice guys remain, but hatred had been built and cannot trust women so women are left single or being single mom.

Simple word
Today guys say Nice guy finish last
Tomorrow girls say why there is no nice guy left, all are jerk...

And it is truth that will not change...

Karma...
Ripe what you sow

[JustinX9]

dont expect anything for being nice... you can be nice to everyone but if someone is mean or rude to you then you can stop being nice to them... its unfair on your part... and that is why women stereotype guys like you as "nice guys". i was once before and now i dont give a shit to those who are rude to me. if the girl is nice i'll be nice too if she is mean than i have to spank her ass and let her know who is the boss

[elements]

"don't give us nice guys and good guys bad reputations"

You said that in response to cyrus, which I found incredibly amusing. You don't want nice guys to have this reputation, and yet you're generalizing all women and assuming that they all behave the way you described in your question.

Don't be nice if you don't want to be, but don't expect the women who are looking for a serious, healthy relationship to pay any attention to you if you lack respect for others.

And I also agree 100% with what cyrus said, as well.

[DragonLord]

I'm sorry it's make us mad sometimes and sometimes she tries to turn us into jerks for her mistakes she made I just don't get what are we suppose to do if you don't mind please tell us what are we suppose to do and I might take it back

[DragonLord]

I'm damn proud of being nice but women find it a turn off the link is prove what I mean if I was mean or offensive I'm sorry I want to know what we suppose to do hit you ladies whatever to get you to like us nice guys and good guys so I'm sorry it just bothers me and I want the truth why is a woman turn off if we are nice

[cyrus7]

:D

[DragonLord]

@cyrus7 I'm only confuse I'm not a jerk if you know the answer then please spit it out because some of us good men get single mothers because they want us after she have her babies

[DragonLord]

OK what about if your man abuse you hit you etc. then you always go back to him after you get healed by who uh the nice guy then you left him because why because he is nice what you want from us is that to much to ask

[DragonLord]

and what I meant was most women want bad men

[goflipaburger]

Truth is that if you're expecting something just because you're being "nice" you're not nice, you're entirely self interested.

Theres nothing anyone can do to prove you wrong because it's clear that your emotions are clouding your rationality.

[DragonLord]

I'm sorry it's make us mad sometimes and sometimes she tries to turn us into jerks for her mistakes she made and now you making sense

[AllDay]

Don't let people chande you dude.

Be a nice dude, not cause people will appreciate you more but because its what you wanna do and because you see the world in a different light.

[DragonLord]

@Dig-It-All now someone understand knows where I'm coming from thanks for your understanding I'm not letting her too have you notice some of us turn into jerks because she wants us to that's messed up huh?

[DragonLord]

may I ask so it's best to be unemotional aka never ever show emotions to her at all? I ask because if you treat her like crap or abuse her she loves you more if you don't she hates you or dump you may I ask as well what's up with that it's just so confusing if you know what I mean

[goflipaburger]

no lol. It's good to be emotional, but there are different types of emotions :P I was talking about your rage-- rage is the most irrational, it clouds your vision entirely.

My boyfriend treats me very well, and I love him very very much :)

[DragonLord]

OK and thanks for your understanding some women betray me,back stab me and cheated on me that's why I'm confuse thanks for clearing that up for me and most women refuse to date a good person like me then he get left overs that means she date him after she got pregnant by a bad man that is not so nice then she wants a nice guy all I'm saying is most women need to wake up and ask herself does she want love or abuse

[goflipaburger]

I just think SHE has problems. I don't think its applicable to an entire gender or even to yourself. She sounds like... I don't know :P

[DragonLord]

OK thanks I wanted to tell you and all women on here this site I'm sorry and I'm sorry if it's negative and if it's mean or offensive I didn't mean the way it sounds I hope everyone understands what I mean when I ask this question

[goflipaburger]

no need to apologize, I understand :)

[DragonLord]

may I ask since I pick little bit of new languages here and there you know like TV shows and movies what women think of guys like me who picked up a new language or two like I picked up some Spanish language things like that if they found out if a guy or like me as an example that I picked new language or two what do you think what is their reaction if they found out me or a guy of what I ask in this question in your opinion

[goflipaburger]

i think that's awesome :D

[DragonLord]

i mean do you know what is their reaction will be if they found out if I pick a little bit of new language here and there that's what I mean when I ask you just now

[djmzes]

Everything is based around rewards
The rewards are the reasons

Like you study hard to pass exams
You work hard to get promoted at work
You get in a relationship to give love...

You do X, you get Y...

Action ->rewards

[Nyx_85]

Punctuation man. Punctuation. Form your sentences properly.

I just can't respond to that.

[JayCasper777]

You shouldn't be nice to women. They say they want that but they hate it in reality.

Don't be nice, they hate it. I know they say otherwise but obviously they lying.

Learn to enjoy women & your life. You ain't gotta be bad but just don't be nice. Women hate that.

[cyrus7]

you're not a nice guy if you expect something out of being nice

[DragonLord]

so we should take care of the bastards kids and her when she rejected us by saying we are too nice? I'm damn proud of being nice if she don't accept it let her get hurt and see how it feels when some of us moved on and she won't hear from us ever again do the math when she complains when she is mistreated

[cyrus7]

no you don't have to do anything you don't want to, I personally would never date a girl who had a kid

[goflipaburger]

Best answer :D

[DragonLord]

and it's women's own fault for rejecting nice guys and good guys are we suppose take her bastard kids,her issues,her baggage,her diseases and her and jerks thugs players whoever get her and us nice guys and good guys get nothing but her left over p**** she needs to stop giving excuses for the mistreatment and don't give us nice guys and good guys bad reputations for her mistakes she made that's point of my question

[DragonLord]

i see your point and I won't date single mothers either all we want is the truth and she lies we want the truth from you ladies and @goflipaburger we only asking for the truth she gets pregnant from bad men so if you understand then please tell us what's going on here and what's going on in the community and if it's mean or offensive I'm sorry I'm trying to figure it out what's going on here

[cyrus7]

just reject those single mothers dude,... no one is making you do anything and rejecting them is only logical

[DragonLord]

OK I will thanks for your understanding man sorry if that sounds like a attack towards women I mean to say most women do this

[moviedude714]

and why does being nice make guys look weak, gosh, almost anything can make us guys look weak

[DragonLord]

amen brother I agree and most women think niceness and kindness is weak and give us nice guys and good guys bad reputations for what mistake she made and she did this to herself what's up with that you know what I mean and I'm still trying to figure out the truth and if you know what is going on please tell us nice guys and good guys your view of what you think if you don't mind thanks if you don't know either I understand

[moviedude714]

they say they don't want us guys to give away our power, what power is that? do they want us to be the "Boss" in the relationship or what? I thought they had controlling guys

[DragonLord]

i agree and thanks for not taking this the wrong way and thanks for your understanding you the the 2nd get where I'm coming from when I ask this question if you wanted to know who is the first his user name on here is Dig-It-All if you don't mind please read this story I cam up with and feel free to comment if you wish to say something here is the link

[DragonLord]

and so you know the link of link I'm trying to make this into a feature article

[dwiller943]

Because some of us are good women that deserve and choose good men.