What are the most attractive traits (physical and/or personality) to you on a woman?
Superb Opinion
- 821 opinions shared on Dating topic.
These aren't all equally important, and some things would just be nice to have while others are more important. Its also not exhaustive.
Emotional: Emotionally mature. Aware of her emotions. Values her emotions, but is not ruled by them. Able to engage with her emotions and know what they are telling her. Able to connect with others emotionally and understand them.
Physical: Long curly black hair. Dark brown eyes. Fine features. Darker skin, or at least the ability to tan. Athletic. Slender. Busty. Clear waist to hip ratio. Curved hand tight butt. Strong but small feet. And most importantly, a smile that lights up her face.
Spiritual: A practicing Roman Catholic. She loves God more than me. Wants to raise our children to be good and holy people. Has an active prayer life, and a devotion to a particular saint.
Political: Conservative, yet with an open mind.
Able to debate and understand political arguments and trends. Likes the socio-political trends. Understands the deep ideologies behind what's moving the culture in the world.
Relational: Empathetic. Seeks a very deep level of connection. Respectful. Wants the best possible relationship. Values relationships and the work it takes to maintain them. Loves to tease, and is very playful and fun. Likes conversations, and exploring each other's thoughts and minds. Values good communication and high honesty and integrity
Family: Is open to a large family. Likes kids. Wants to be a stay-at-home mom. Wants to homeschool our kids. Is relatively clean and tidy. Wants to work out a system where we support each other well.
Personal: Driven. Oriented towards self-improvement. Likes staying physically and emotionally active. Adventurous. Loves trying new things. Is always learning and growing
Sexual: Committed to a one-person relationship. Ideally a virgin, but not necessary as long as she is willing to wait until marriage. Initiates, and is open to spicing things up. Understands the power of love and connection through sex.
Most Helpful Opinions
-
The most attractive traits on a woman to me.
PHYSICAL:
- Tall (5'10"+)
- Feminine/girly looking
- Redheaded
- Thick/plus-sized/BBW
- Between 20 and 30 years oldPERSONALITY:
- Kind/sweet
- Upbeat/positive
- Good sense of humor
- Strong work ethic
- Respectful and ladylikeEXTRAS:
- Politically moderate (not too liberal or conservative)
- Strictly heterosexual
- Strictly monogamous and faithful
- Not overly religious (ideally, not religious at all, but I don't mind moderates)
- Nerdy/a gamer (a nice bonus, but not required)
LEAST ATTRACTIVE TRAITS (DEALBREAKERS):
- Feminist/woke
- Transgender (men)
- Bisexual/queer (lesbians)
- Polyamorous
- Abusive in any way, physical or verbally
- Has an OnlyFans and/or promotes lewd content on the internet
What Girls & Guys Said
1
Opinion
48Opinion
-
1-a girl who hasn't a string of "just friends" males she keeps waiting in the wings or exes. No single moms, I never knocked anyone up, so I'm not into raising someone else's "mistakes" or putting up with their ex still in their life. F that nonsense..
2-a slender feminine woman who enjoys dressing up feminine to go out, such as in skirts, legwear and heels , because if I wanted the company of butch tomboys , I'd just hang out after work with dudes I already have to spend 40 hours per week with and would cost me almost nothing.
3-yeah, I am a fiscally successful conservative who's earned through sweat and blood everything I have who'd rather live single instead of allowing any big t*t bimbo to divorcerape me or attempt paternity fraud (which did happen when i was young and naive ). I stopped approaching women long ago and am so much better off for it..
- 1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Physical: Cute face, long thick hair, not fat (actually if she is skinny and petite, very wimpy looking that is my favorite, and athletic is my second favorite), no tattoos, no piercings other than her ears, clean soft hands with clean unpainted nails. If she dresses in silky shiny clothes, I'd like that a lot too so she looks more cute and cuddly.
Personality: Trustworthy, loyal, very affectionate, initiates affection sometimes, gives her opinions but is fine with me taking the lead/making decisions, has no contact with any ex, no drugs or alcohol, family oriented (wants kids), likes playing board games with me, thinks of a relationship as a team, NOT a competition between each other.
-
- In terms of personality i like the one that she laugh at my jokes and kinda chill person not too serious not getting offended easily , and also the one that can argue with me in any topic like she got high curiosity and desire to know more.
- in terms of phisicality : i like brunnette because they tend to have mesmerizing smile and breathtaking dark mysterious eyes. Basiccally they are sexier for me in every aspect espichially because im white skinned so i think we can make a great couple and diverse kids. - 784 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Physical:
Long fingernails
Long toenails
Long hair
Personality:
Politically incorrect humor
Anger issues (as long as it isn't directed towards me)
Non-judgmental (of me)
-
So I look at personality traits most and look at if a girl as a good sense of humor or if she has a a high self esteem or a high confidence level but it is always attractive when they have a small frame and good boobs
- 330 opinions shared on Dating topic.
Intelligent, independent, and resolute. She can speak her mind. Yet sweet, timid, and kind. Her smile is coupled with a certain radiance in her eyes- she glows. When she looks at me I can feel her and I can't help but smile in return. That, is beauty.
- 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Compliant/cooperative, attentive/affectionate/dutiful/caring/nurturing, drama-free/emotionally intelligent/mature/reliable, enthusiastic/laughs easily/upbeat, slutty/adventurous/not promiscuous
Height under 5'8", curvaceous body, flat stomach, bubble butt, big full breasts, puffy lips, big eyes, long dark hair, clear skin, waist:hip <0.7
-
Personality > Physical
It's what is on the inside that counts. She must be kind hearted respectful understanding and loving towards all people.
Physical comes second in my opinion
-
Physical - eyes, smile, blonde or ginger hair (usually), nice figure (esp ass).
Personality - nice and kind, caring, funny, good company, not awkward -
Now imagine what personalities they would have.
-
I'm attracted to tomboyish girls
Girls that fight like a man, not afraid of being dirty, likes to work and play hard.
But be just girly enough to have long hair.
Short hair girls are a turnoff for me
-
Physically: fit, but curvy with voluptuous but perky breasts. Nice long, strong legs are nice too.
Personality: good sense of humor, generally a more intense personality. Boring people suck
-
100% or even 9000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000 %
Personality.
-
Hourglass figure.
Good cook/home maker
Fit.
Minimal make-up usage
Respectful
Reserved.
Faithful.
Enjoys a good laugh. -
Personality: Loyality, she cares, and isn't a headache to be around.
Physically: She ain't fat, nice ass, and she is hygienic.
-
-
Longer hair (length between shoulders and lower back) and overall good hygiene physically
Emotionally mature and kind personality wise -
Well I like long black hair and blue or green eyes but not if she is a bitch all the time, I guess I prefer a kind loyal and honest female.
- 11K opinions shared on Dating topic.
Intelligence, kindness, healthy weight, takes care of herself.
-
Sense of adventure, full kissable lips, feminine chin and eyes, long hair, artsy sensibility about her, athletic.
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
