What do you find most attractive about a woman?

[Tiptoetamm]

Just curious what your answers will be. Anyone can answer

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What about hair length? What do you prefer?

[FreeOhSeven]

I’m a whole package sort of man, I like boobs, butt and the dimples on the small of her back. I also love a beautiful smile and eyes! Personality is something that I value for the long run. Each woman is unique and offers something equally unique to be attracted to.

[FreeOhSeven]

Hair length depends on face structure

[Tiptoetamm]

Good answer lol

[FreeOhSeven]

Thanks! What about you what’s your opinion?

[Tiptoetamm]

About women or men?

[FreeOhSeven]

Well the question is about women, but I’d be interested in hearing your opinion on both.

[Tiptoetamm]

Okay sure

[Tiptoetamm]

I like outgoing women with little attitude, I like a women that knows what she wants and goes for it, looks wise I like a little curvy big boobs nice ass whole package

[FreeOhSeven]

Well thanks, I like a woman who knows what she likes!

[Tiptoetamm]

Men I want a man with drive not afraid to take charge, such a turn on and looks wise I like tall men with broad shoulders muscular legs tattoos and facial hair

[Tiptoetamm]

Absolutely

[FreeOhSeven]

Did you notice my beard? Lol jk - thanks for answering!

[Tiptoetamm]

Very nice but I like the big bushy ones lol

[FreeOhSeven]

I’ll keep that in mind

[Browneye57]

Well tamm... THE NUMBER ONE thing guys look for in ANY woman is HER level of attraction and desire for HIM.

[MedAsianGirl]

Quite true haha. But I don't really like that. It's like guys do good things for girls with conditions, while we girls do good things for guys usually without such conditions.

[Tiptoetamm]

Thank you for your honesty

[Browneye57]

@MedAsianGirl - The truth is, men love idealistically, women love opportunistically. Technically you have it backwards. A woman is all in as long as she feels her needs are being met. And her feelings are subject to change at any given moment. It is ALWAYS and ALL about the FEELZ.

[Tiptoetamm]

@Browneye57 I make a point to make my partner feel appreciated for everything he does. By making my own money for the household making sure he has a hot home cooked meal when he gets home. I think women expect to much from their partners

[Browneye57]

Well that is just outstanding. And I'm sure he returns the favors in kind.
Men are simple, not stupid. They have very very basic needs. You hit on number 2 and number 3, number one is sex. Then food, then love/respect/attention.
About half of women get this, the other half either don't believe it, can't be bothered, or simply refuse. And then they wonder why he wanders off looking for a woman who will.
If you give him all of these he could need or want, he'll remain forever loyal and in love with you.
He'll swim through shark infested waters to bring you lemonade. __Dr. Laura

The medasiangirl is absolutely clueless. Guys do good things for girls with conditions? LOL. Yeah, for sex. That's how guys connect.

If your man isn't the greatest thing that's ever happened to you, and you're not simply in awe of him, then cut him loose and find one that IS!! It's really worth it!

[Tiptoetamm]

There you go. I learned that a long time ago way to a man's heart good sex good food respect and independence

[Browneye57]

You're a keeper for sure!

[Tiptoetamm]

Aww thank you

[FilmGuy93]

Full, kissable lips! That's honestly more attractive to me than big breasts or a nice butt. Those things are great and a lot of fun to touch, but I'm totally willing to be witha woman who doesn't have any of those things, if she has nice lips. There's something incredibly important to me about the intimacy of kissing.

[Tiptoetamm]

Yeah how big we talking lol

[FilmGuy93]

Just proportional to her face. Look up an instagram model named Mira Patel. She has some of the sexiest lips I've ever seen.

[Tiptoetamm]

Okay I will

[FilmGuy93]

lmk what you think of her.

[Tiptoetamm]

Your right great lips she she is beautiful

[FilmGuy93]

They are her most attractive feature, in my opinion.

[Pyrofox]

This is going to sound weird but when a woman is good with kids. NOTE: not talking single mom's

Its like when a beautiful girl understands how kids work they can handle the emotional outbursts and sometimes overly emotional side of guys better. Which to me is somthing impressive and something admittedly I look for cause I know that woman is going to know how to then handle if I get my self into a toxic anxiety panic attack. She isn't going to like blow up in my face over it she will gracefully take me aside and actually like care about me.

I know the irony with all the karen memes and the one thing I look for is essentially being caring LOL.

But in all seriousness guys appreciate women who aren't always like handling obsidian. And if you don't understand what obsidian is. Its a very beautiful volcanic glass If you chip or snap edges you get a PERFECT edge for cutting which is a blessing and a curse. Perfect sharp edges cut many hard things easy and soft things cut like a hot knife through butter. But the catch is obsidian is fragile also. And it can be pretty which is why I compare the vast majority of women to obsidian. They can look pretty but its more often than not their ego's or opinion of others that are far too often like obsidian and it just ends up scaring off guys when they chose to shatter.

[TwistedSukuna]

Honestly relate to this.
And that last bit about Obsidian sounds like something a buddy of mine would say

[Tiptoetamm]

It doesn't sound weird at all. Im like that to a T. My ex has a brain injury and I'm really the only person who gets him. Helps him calm down. Im nor perfect I have mutt moment but mostly very patient person

[Pyrofox]

@TwistedSukuna Well I'm an Anthropology with emph in Archaeology major with a minor in Geosciences so this is my way of telling girls the harsh truth without having to straight up cuss them out. Cause I find swear words a bit to crude. Plus its fun to make girls think.

[Pyrofox]

@Tiptoetamm and that is exactly what guys will never say to a womans face.

[Tiptoetamm]

Why not

[Pyrofox]

Societies rule that men gotta seem and look tough. Weakness is a sign of giving up. So 90% of guys fake it till we make it. A lot of guys underneath are mostly just giant walking teddy bears. With of course the few exceptions that don't like being touched.

[Tiptoetamm]

Personally I like when a man feels comfortable enough around me to be vulnerable. It's refreshing

[Tiptoetamm]

I want a teddy bear with a wild side that would be perfect

[Tiptoetamm]

I seriously hate me men were thought this it's just ridiculous

[Pyrofox]

Start getting more girls to start telling their other halves its okay to open up. Its the number one way to know the difference between a guy who's going to stick around or just hook up and ditch town. Is what is the the communicative level of the relationship is and not just what the sexual is like. Cause any guy and girl can be friends with benefits and not actually think about the love part of it.

[Tiptoetamm]

I completely agree. We are all human and have human emotions and its totally normal. Half of my exs are hard asses won't show any emotion at all even tho you know they are hurting, and the other I half I had to convince to open up to me and that whatever is said between us stays between us and I'm a safe play for you to be vulnerable, honestly you could see the relief in them at the end

[Pyrofox]

And thats why I'm cautious about asking and or dating girls XD. Even though I know my cousins let along my mom and her sisters would probably vet the girl I choose like crazy >.> Got 2 female cousins that are either married or going to get married and one male cousin who's going to do the same. I just mostly choose the path in life of least resistance since I also am fortunate enough not to have crushing college debt. So for now just am comfortably sailing the sea looking for a nice job. Got a great family and I can choose to have a realtionship and be safe pretty much any time. I'm really thankful for what I have.

[Tiptoetamm]

I'm very protective over my siblings and how they are treated they all get the sister speech you hurt her I hurt you

[ohshee]

There are so many things I mean from just the look in their eye. Their smile. Their confidence. Their shyness. Do they are on the inside. But one of them makes the other one and the other one makes the other one in the other it's like the finger bone connected to the hand bone the hand bone connected to the arm bone each one dances the other one but if I can feel that radiating from somebody's body and I to let energy then I'm hooked LOL

[Tiptoetamm]

Your so right! Im such a physical person I love physical touch even just cuddling

[JustinTimberlegs]

The ability to have deeper and more meaningful thoughts, respects your opinions can can deal with problems with reason (i. e. willing to consider opposing points in disagreements if they are valid). Her empathy, kindness and sense oh humour.

And then her personality, smile, voice, rest of her physical appearance, strength/self security, style, independence. In that order lol. That's just what's important to me, most likely won't find someone with any of those traits 😂

[ToastyOats]

That she finds me attractive is the number 1 thing.
I don't waste my time checking women out until they have shown they might like me. Frankly, women are basically all the same. Small, big, blond, brunette. I don't really care they're all crazy and irrational, but some like me and that makes all the difference.

[Tiptoetamm]

Crazy girls have the best sex

[ToastyOats]

I have never enjoyed crazy girl sex personally. It was wild and passionate, but there was no connection and they didn't even care about there being one.
Its almost like they're brain just shutoff, which is a turn off for me. I've never enjoyed mindless banging, just my experience🤷

[Tiptoetamm]

I hear ya

[AmandaYVR]

Gentle femininity combined with internal confidence and strength.
Compassion for others, while also not allowing herself to be unfairly walked on or intimidated.
I don't like females who aren't nice and sweet and kind (same as males.)
I don't like females who act exactly like males.
They can be strong, but manifest it in different ways.

[Aroon5201]

That nice

[MAKO31]

@Aroon5201 that is really your answer?

[stupidgirlllll123]

I find it attractive when girls care about my feelings and are sensitive towards them, I like it when they are gentle towards me and don't try to make me feel bad in any way.

[Tiptoetamm]

That's how it should be

[stupidgirlllll123]

For real

[Mofunfour20]

When she's supportive, sexy, and peaceful (silent). Actions speak 95% louder than words anyway. Dont tell me, show me

[Tiptoetamm]

Absolutely

[Mofunfour20]

I dont care about hair length. Most fit women look good bald, most guys aren't willing to say it though. It ridiculous because everyone knows men have sex with socks

[Tiptoetamm]

Omg hilarious and so true. I don't know how many crusty socks I've cleaned hahahahaha

[Mofunfour20]

Lucky for him, some guys have to do their own laundry. Your nose and stomach must be solid

[Tiptoetamm]

It's just laundry, I show my man appreciation for what he provides, including laundry, meals bjs, sex and lastly I contribute as well

[Mofunfour20]

We should clone your dna. I mean thatbas a compliment 🍺

[Tiptoetamm]

Hahahahahahaha

[Tiptoetamm]

To me it's only fair kind of traditional relationships with a twist

[Mofunfour20]

If every guy had that standard for women the world would be a much better place, heavy lifting and protection is easy

[Anonymous]

The most attractive part of a woman is the sexiest part—her mind...
- It’s what decides how she’s gonna flirt with you and seduce you, and
- It’s what picks out the sexy clothes she wears in front of you, and
- It’s what thinks up the naughty things she says to you when chatting online or while you’re thrusting deep inside of her

3 thoughts concerning women’s hair length:
1. I like whatever hair style & length makes the woman feel the sexiest
2. “Medium” length hair on women is nice, because they can wear it up or down
3. I prefer a women’s hair length down to her nipples…kidding, not kidding ;)

[Opinion Owner]

* a woman’s hair length

[Miristheiss]

Her face, her eyes, her smile, her skin, her hair
Her shape and figure, her laugh, the sound of her voice.
Her personality, her femininity

[Tiptoetamm]

That's awesome

[t-8900]

Face, big time. Sharp bone structure for sure! And her hair and eyes. I like black hair and brown eyes pretty much exclusively. Also skin color. I like tan/brown skin.

[t-8900]

Edit: saw your update. I like just past the shoulders. I LOVE when she wears it down, parted in the center or especially in a ponytail. Ponytails drive me CRAZY.

[Tiptoetamm]

Awesome thank you

[t-8900]

you're welcome :)

[clampfan101]

I can’t pick a very favorite, but high on the list is long hair. I’m super into hair lengths that most girls wouldn’t bother getting. lol But ultra long hair can make them look like a princess, or even a goddess if their body is also particularly nice.

[Pj1981]

Her feminine ways, personality if it's good, and of course I'm attracted to her physically in some way. Those together for me will make me crazy attracted. If you mean body part/parts I love the spot where the hip bone meets the public area just below the panty line. I like to kiss that area because I know where I'm going next which turns me on so I'm attracted to that area but I'm pretty sure you meant overall.

[ArrowheadSW]

If our personalities click. That is more attractive than looks.

[Tiptoetamm]

Absolutely

[loves2learn]

I think a smile is what draws me to a person the most. I gravitate toward friendly people.

[Tiptoetamm]

Your so right

[loves2learn]

Thanks hun :)

[Tiptoetamm]

Your welcome

[BulletAlife]

It is often said that beauty is skin deep, but we can’t deny the fact that the first impression does play a very significant role. It is also true that between men and women, it is not always about beauty and looks – it is much more than that. But what exactly do men find attractive in women? Fortunately, there have been a lot of studies conducted on this topic and they have given us plenty of insights into what the majority of men find attractive in women – no matter their specific taste. Surprisingly, sometimes it is not even intentional – there are some unexpected things that attract men towards women, which you might be surprised about. But guessing no more, let’s see what those studies been talking about!

[ZDoes]

It's completely a synergy thing. It's about the package honestly. But if I'm coming from a purely visceral gotta have her kind of place... the silhouette of a woman with her back to me. Curves clearly defined.

[Wester1967]

Her brain. And then if she also wears glasses, oMG it’s a wrap. Just take me in the back room and have your way, ladies.

[Tiptoetamm]

That's awesome. Take that librarian to the back room

[Den1971]

I love just how women are so pretty how they take care of themselves I'm really kind of an average guy I like it when a girl has a ponytail and no makeup and has like natural beauty

[Tiptoetamm]

That's me I rarely wear makeup and my hair is always wither ponytail or messy bun

[Tiptoetamm]

Sometimes down curly or I'll straighten it i do so many things with my hair

[Den1971]

I love that. Then walking around with boy shorts on no panties. Teasing. Tight ones that show that ass. I'm day dreaming for real

[Tiptoetamm]

Haha I wear them all the time usually with s thong

[Den1971]

Easier to take off. With teeth

[The-Wise-Phoenix]

The long hair.
Even as a young boy I was always attracted to long hair on females.

[Tiptoetamm]

How long middle of the back or to her ass

[The-Wise-Phoenix]

Both

[Tiptoetamm]

Okay sweet thank you