Guys, hook up texts you month later?

[Anonymous]

What would you think if a girl you hooked up texts you a month later and asks if you have any plans this weekend. Would you want to hook up again?

[DaveJord]

Humm... really depends on a few things. If I was actually in another relationship, then no. If the first hookup was not very good then, maybe, some sex is better then no sex.

If she is texting me for anything other then another hookup, then probably not. If she is texting because she is interest in more then hooking up then maybe, but I am expecting sex on the date.

If she really did be dirty the first time around and hurt my feelings, then no never.

But if I am in a place where I am not dating someone else, and she reacts out, then yes I definitely would hook up again.

[Asker]

What if the biggest reason the sex was eh was bc the guy kept pulling completely out every 3-4 thrusts before reinserting buying himself time

[DaveJord]

Well it could of been eh... for you. But it also could of been because he was trying to stop himself from orgasming and ejaculating prematurely or too fast. If it happens again I would tell its okay, he can keep going and if he loses it too fast... tell its okay we go for round two as soon as your ready. He should last longer the second time.

I do not know how old you are, but guys in their young 20's have that issue with premature ejaculation... but if he is a in 30's or 40's then yeah he might just be a bad lover... but who really knows. Most guys without any real experience with sex don't have a clue how to please a women.

If he has gone a month without texting then kinda know already that he sucks, so if you texted him again he might get is confidence back.

[Asker]

He is 29, trust me I would have hoped he had better control too. Either he was super turned on or it had been awhile or both. And on top of it all he had a condom on….

[DaveJord]

Yikes sound unimpressive... either he was having issues or he been watching too much porn. Pulling and out might video well for audience, but it's not how to place a women.

[Asker]

Issues from being extremely turned on or maybe bc it had been a while? Or both?

[DaveJord]

Both or either... or he's just a bad lover.