Why are there some people who can't be happily single without to look desperately for love?

[DenizLikesTennis]

[Guy13]

I have no clue and one can smell them when they are seeking a guy. Talk about a red flag... insecure clingy can't be alone and survive without a guy.-Nightmare to be involved with beyond friendship !!

[Monalisa77]

This is why im self conscious around guys i like, i could never outright ask if they have a girlfriend but when you're getting older and inexperienced what do guys expect

[Guy13]

@Monalisa77 It is so very important to remember that our Value does not lie in boys/girls and beauty or those kinds of things. I don’t have an answer to it but I know that this world fleeting and passing away as we are although our soul will live eternally.

[NathanDavis]

how do you manage to be happy and single... or happily single?

[Topaz1979]

They can’t be grateful for the things they have and instead they keep looking for excuses to not be happy by wanting and longing for things that they don’t have. And they assume that being in a relationship will make them happier than they are now which is completely false, because happiness comes from within yourself. Many people are in good relationships but they are still unhappy and unsatisfied. So that means being in a relationship does not equate to happiness and satisfaction.

[Topaz1979]

And I'm not saying people shouldn't date or seek out relationships if that's what you want go for it but don't make it an obsession, don't be desperate just take your time and be content with whatever happens.

[DenizLikesTennis]

You know what I think and what's so funny? Even if it was the case, where you want a girlfriend/relationship so bad... you just can't force that to happen right now in that moment.

Stop looking for heaven's sake... Stop looking... just... stop... looking! ... Stop... looooookkkk-iiiinnnggg!!! OOOOOooooofff😓😒

The more you approach (seek) the more miserable and toxic you become towards to the opposite sex because of all the rejections etc.

You WILL find him or her. People marry like at 45, get divorced 3 times. So like what's the deal with you? Lmao.

It happens by itself. How? You can tell that by talking with someone and feel the chemistry. And that is it !!! No special powers, no magic formula.

And... it... can... be... literally... ANYONE!!! Yes... ANYONE!!! A doctor, a Punk, a lawyer, a cashier, an accountant, a fitness coach...

There are literally guys and women everywhere... and amongst of all those must be at least 1... at least ONE !!! Come on man... don't say zero... at least one!!!
... who is willing to go out on a date with you.

[DenizLikesTennis]

Topaz... I am so tired of this, I just can't tell. I am dealing with irl friends and... I swear... and... they lost their masculinity..

... men these days have become so super feminine:

"Ohh 🥺🥺 what if I don't find the right girl? Will it happen?"

"She likes me I think. Does she like me? Why hasn't she responded, I feel neglected =("

"Hey man, I thought we were friends🥺"

D U D E !!! What happened?

[Topaz1979]

@denizlikestennis I agree with you!

[Topaz1979]

@denizlikestennis they need to learn a thing or two from you! lol

[DenizLikesTennis]

I feel like their daddy sometimes

[Topaz1979]

understandably so tbh.

[Monalisa77]

Because I've many health issues and generally people are horrible to me. I long for the day a guy might see something in me noone else does and treat me well.

Im trying to work on my own anxieties and life goals but ultimately guys tend to make me happiest. Im a hopeless romantic aswell