Is It True That When Black Men Date White Woman?

[Anonymous]

They get the worst looking ones and usually tend to be fat? Do white men feel like they lost anything of value when they get these women?

True

False.

[OpenClose]

"The worst looking ones and usually tend to be fat" isn't quite how I would word it. I think it's usually "the best looking fat ones". Or rather, the "voluptuous" ones.

Apologize for the generalization, but black guys definitely seem to like the bigger features and especially exaggerated curves.

And yeah it doesn't bother me that much. Partially because I know I shouldn't give a damn from a purely moral perspective. But also because I'm really not attracted to these body types personally, and I like seeing these girls still get some love regardless.

I'd say one part that does bug me a bit is girls feeling insecure because they have a small butt and A cups and thinks that looks even remotely bad. So they go to the gym and do a bunch of squats and then get a breast augmentation. Like you do you if it makes you happy. But I can't help but think "goddamn you were already perfect", and hope the change is what makes them happy, and not fitting into a perception of how they think they're "supposed" to look.

But it's not really my place to psychoanalyze or micromanage. It's just when a girl feels insecure about "small features" and want to enlarge them, I feel the urge to swoop in and be like "naw for some of us, that's exactly why you're hot in the first place." I usually bite my tongue, since this could either be the encouragement she was hoping for, or just completely dickish.

[Asker]

You think so. These fat white girls tend to look nothing like the average white girl white men go for

[Asker]

I think many people say they look good solely because she is white it's almost like they look past the fact she is 400 lbs has ten chins and smells but she's still "pretty" I stg even when fat and visibly ugly white women get passes

[OpenClose]

Well yeah I thought I covered that. A difference of preference between black men and white men.
Black guys seem to like big TnA. I don't. Both exist. So we're both good to go.

[OpenClose]

You seem to be angry about something. Dating a black guy, but he left you for a heavy white woman, perhaps? I mean the argument expands beyond race. In fact, I think it's more of a correlation between economic security vs size preference rather than race vs size preference, and we all know about the sources of economic security by race.

[Asker]

No way my boyfriend is white.

[Asker]

It's true even if a white lady is visibly unattractive she will still be deemed pretty by society standards

[Asker]

I don't understand why that hurts white men's feelings the same applies for you guys too, you don't have to look good but society will tell you that you do.

[OpenClose]

I mean you clearly have a chip on your shoulder. You definitely overestimate how much pop culture likes white people.

[Asker]

A chip on my shoulder about what? I asked a question based on experiences...

[Asker]

I don't think you would call any obese woman of another race voluptuous just fat. They brunt of these women are unattractive average white men think they're gross in every aspect but ofc the bottom feeders black men will take your leftovers so what's the issue

[OpenClose]

"Bottom-feeder black men"
"Unattractive"
"Gross"
" it's almost like they look past the fact she is 400 lbs has ten chins and smells"

Right there, that's the chip on your shoulder. Nobody is this hung up and twisted in knots over such a specific dynamic with such a specific interaction. This is like heart-thumping, can-hardly-type-because-you're-shaking-so-much descriptions of what's going on.

For instance, I am frustrated with the obesity epidemic turning the completely normal body types women have always had and men have always liked for the last 200,000 years into suddenly "unattainable, unfair standards" in the last 30, as though we could have possibly changed that quickly. But it's not something that makes me describe anyone as "gross, smelly, bottom-feeders".

If it's as you say and black dudes are into obese white girls, more power to them. They picked the right few decades to be alive. I have nothing against them. Except perhaps a bit of jealousy that they get to be attracted to what has become a majority.

[JamesDiaz11]

This was traditionally true, as ugly/ fat white women would trade up in fitness, for trading down in race; however, this has changed in the past decade. Virtue signaling has grown in importance to the point where legitimately pretty/ beautiful white women are going for black guys in increasing numbers (although I doubt this is over 1/10, even for a fling).

It's become fashionable to signal how "beyond racism" certain white women are by dating (showing that they're dating via tiktok etc.) black guys. The repercussions in single motherhood, domestic violence, and STD infections are largely ignored by the media/ or covered up.

Many of these pretty white girls also have an added factor that came into play (at least the ones who don't hate their father, as many who do date black men to spite them), which is that masculine white men have decreased in number (opting to become feminine/ pretty), while black men (largely from single-parent houses, growing up in rougher areas) have seemingly (proportionally) more masculine guys to choose from. It's well documented the drop in average testosterone levels among all young men. A study on perceived body size also gives black guys an edge, as people PERCEIVE them as larger, even when they're the exact same size.

So, if a girl (even a pretty girl) wants something to brag about (if she can't find a 6'3 guy), and an allegedly masculine guy they could be open to dating black guys. Still, white women still have in-group preference, by in large, which is why most simply go for white guys.

[Msputiton]

The obessions continues yet again.

y'all just love black people so much ya can't keep us out your minds

[Asker]

You're a black woman black men are the first to disrespect you for a white while. separate yourself from that they don't gaf about you why even defend them? Lol

[Msputiton]

🤣🤣🤣yes mommy tell us dumb little black women how to live because he are too dumb to think for ourselves

[242plusInfinity]

I swear. It never ends.

[WhitneySnow]

Not true. I know a couple interracial couples where the girl is cute.

[Asker]

Interesting

[genericname85]

i don't see women who date someone else as a "loss" in general. cause i can't lose what i don't own in the first place. if she weren't dating them, that wouldn't mean she'd date me instead. obviously black men do date white women. which is fine. i'd date a black girl too. no issues there.

[TonightYouu]

I think it depends on the guys taste in women

not too shabby Jay 😉

I love iskra her ass is magnificent 🍑😍

[Asker]

The first one is alright the second one isn't attractive a little on the heavier side and the last one is just ok.. these are also rich men not your average black dude

[TonightYouu]

Jay Ellis isn’t rich any black guy making more than 50k a year isn’t average because the average black man makes anywhere from 30 to 45k a year

and iskra ( the second one ) is an international model she’s been in vogue and she’s heavier in that picture because she just gave birth to their child

And I think that’s just based on what you find attractive so if you don’t mind me asking who is a white female celebrity that you think is attractive

[Asker]

Top elite white women would be Megan fox, bella Hadid etc these girls don't even come close which proves my point. They're just white not attractive I understand that many people may not separate the two.

[TonightYouu]

ivanna McMahon is hotter than Bella Elsa Jean is hotter than Bella Marsha may is hotter than Bella
Riley Reid is hotter than Bella Sasha grey is hotter than Bella Bella looks like a dude

Megan fox was hot when she was young now she is a geriatric

[Asker]

Sure whatever you say but that's not what I usually see normal black dudes with.

[Asker]

Walmart couples and grocery store ir couples is what I usually see.

[Asker]

I also truly believe that black men think any woman that pretty much isn't black is a dime even if she isn't.

[TonightYouu]

Tf is a Walmart couple?🤣

[Asker]

Couples you see on a daily basis in the real world not google images of "attractive black male white women couples"

[TonightYouu]

And I mean yeah but that’s black womens fault black women have horrible attitudes looks only get you so far

[Asker]

Blame black women for the reason most bm will accept another races trash. Interesting ☺️ like I said they don't have to be attractive, friendly, or fit most aren't just white that's it

[TonightYouu]

What? They most certainly are attractive friendly and fit one man’s trash is another man treasure and that’s says more about black women because they’d rather take what this alleged trash over taking a black womans shit😂

[Asker]

Sure why not? These types of dude would pass over a nia long and Naomi Campbell anyway for a honey booboo or mama June. The proof is within the pudding.

[Asker]

It also doesn't bother me because they usually makes these women single mothers just like everyone else and abandon their children.

[TonightYouu]

You watch too much tv
And I hate when women say that shit “ he abandoned his kids” no bitch he abandoned YOU! It is actually pretty rare to find a man who genuinely does not give a fuck about his kids

Notice how women who say that always just say he left and what he did but not what they did and I don't know what you know about physics but for every action there is a reaction

[TonightYouu]

There’s a special place in hell for women who use their children like that

[Asker]

A man can leave a woman but leaving his child isn't a good excuse. Black Males are creating broken homes and breaking women everywhere

[TonightYouu]

Do you have any idea how hard men have to fight for custody?

[Asker]

Sure they do the court is automatically more lenient towards the mom. However do you know that the court approves the final decision if they agree with the parent who is pursing child support

[Asker]

It's the craziest thing black males are turning every other race of woman into angry bw and I'm loving it so far lmaooo

[TonightYouu]

No they aren’t they’re just single mothers and those women are still getting married more than black Women 🤣 and I love it

[Asker]

You should look at the rates of white dingle mothers to black males. And yes they are the most married and they marry their own men because they are quality ww not the funny looking ones you have posted above me 😅

[TonightYouu]

Yet you think Bella ha did isn’t funny looking 😂 okay.

I don’t think you know what a quality woman is

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Unless they have good money it's true. They always seem to get the rejects or whores or past whores all used up.

[Asker]

Not sure why the other comments are claiming it as false. I see it everytime I go grocery shopping or to Walmart

[RyanDeal009876]

Usually Good looking White men have other options so they don't truly care who some White women date.

[Pot8o]

It's true that they seem to be happy to date fairly meh white chicks. I often think those guys could do better.

[Asker]

They cannot that's the best that they can get. White men get the cream of the crop

[Pot8o]

As a white guy, that's not my experience. White women's standards are nuts.

[Asker]

I mean the best looking ones usually date within in their race

[Allyfax]

White men think black dudes had bigger penises ao when dating a white chick after they feel inadequate... not big enough 🤯😅😂

[michael0007]

No its not exactly true but as in Porn they potray this lol according to me.

[Asker]

That's what I've seen personally. I see black men with unattractive or out of shape white women. Women that white most likely passed over

[michael0007]

Its like its jus for sex in porn and to earn money lol. But i dont exaclty think thats the scene lol.

[Asker]

I'm speaking about outside of sex

[Asker]

Sure

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[michael0007]

I did. You also do.

[Asker]

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[michael0007]

Yes. I sent a request.

[BJP21]

False, I hit true.

[jimmy2]

Both ways

[Asker]

You think so? I'm solely asking about black men