Guys, would you talk to a girl on the phone for like 3 hours if you weren’t connected to her or like her?

[Anonymous]

[DaveJord]

All depends honestly, if the conversation was going well and if I thought I had a chance with her. But to answer your question yes on some level I would have to have a sincere interest in at least getting with her. I would not assume that just because a guy talks on the phone with for 3 hours that he is too interest or all that serious about you. But he is defiantly invest to a degree to meeting you and maybe see how things go.

By the second to third call if all we have done was just talked on the phone I would start to lose interest fast. I am not talking on the phone for three hours every night.

[AviatorTom]

Yes, and I have. Many years ago, I met this girl on a blind date and we really connected. I had to travel for work, and we stayed in touch via occasional phone calls. This was before the internet. One evening I called her around 7pm and we talked about all kinds of things. Finally, we realized that we should really get some sleep and when we looked at the clock, it was 7am, time to get up and go to work. Yep, it was a 12-hour phone call.

[Truthatanycost]

I wouldn't even if I was... colossal waste of time! a guy doing that is probably not on his purpose or has too much time on his hands. But he will learn in time...

[Summeroflove]

I mean I obviously like her in some way or another to talk for 3 hours.

[SlothySlob]

If we're friends and haven't seen or talked to each other in quite some time, maybe.

[FilmGuy93]

No way lol I need to be head over heels for someone to want to talk with them that long.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I talk to regular friends longer than that daily.

[maximumpower]

If I had 3 hours of my life to waste by just "talking."
Would rather spend 3 hours doing something else, tho.

[ShyNaughtyGuy]

yeah I do can talk with a girl without liking her just as a friend.

[Dreamclouds]

Most likely not, even if 3 hours is not that much

[Danny_dan92]

3 hours on the phone is a very long time

[Asker]

I did most of the talking and he listened. But I mean I haven’t talked to any of my girl friends for over an hour and a half.

[Danny_dan92]

So either he is a good listener, thus resulting in you wanting to talk more. Or you’re interested and so you pushed the conversation to drag on.

Who knows. If you are asking this cause you like him, and are unsure if he feels the same way about you?

Just ask him

[Asker]

Haha good points. We haven’t met in person. We organize a conference together on a committee.
I didn’t really push the conversation or anything. He just didn’t say he had to go or anything.

[Danny_dan92]

You guys are co workers?

[Asker]

Not really. It’s just a volunteer committee.

[Danny_dan92]

Oh on

[Danny_dan92]

Ok**

[sifat10shahriar]

Mmm if her voice is attractive then yes

[Asker]

A guy I worked with once told me I have a really cute voice.

[sifat10shahriar]

Then pretty sure i can talk to you for hours haha.

[ThebestIndian]

Maybe if it in an official call?

[Asker]

? What do you mean?

[ThebestIndian]

Nothing. I don't talk for 3 hours if I don't like her

[Asker]

I don't know he might have been bored or just wanted to be nice.

[ThebestIndian]

Did he say he don't like you and talked with you for 3 hours?

[Asker]

He just said he hasn’t talked to anyone else on the committee for as long as we talked and that he sees how special the work I do is, how it’s close to my heart, etc.

[ThebestIndian]

I guess he likes you

[Asker]

We haven’t talked much since. It’s been a few weeks.

[HiddenKryptonite]

Maybe it was professional, is he married?

[Asker]

@HiddenKryptonite I don't know but if I was married I’d be super annoyed if My spouse was on the phone that long 😂

[Snedger____]

No I won't