Will a guy keep on initiating texts after texts if he found the girl unattractive or ugly?

[Anonymous]

Guys, be honest. My guy friend and I chat a lot on Instagram. We are friends from college but now in different cities. Recently, after a long time, I sent him a selfie (with cleavage) as he keeps sending me his pics all the time. I feel very insecure sometimes but he commented cuteee after seeing that pic.

Now, I don't know whether he actually liked my pic or was he just being nice. I compliment him all the time so maybe he felt the need to do the same?

After sending that pic, I became a bit cold after that. But he kept on initiating texts for a month. I like him and I want him to find me attractive. But I am not sure whether he likes me or not? I want him to fantasize about me? What are the chances I am not delusional and maybe he likes me as well?

[kylee2437]

Well are you looking for him to like you or to have sex with you? I think it’s great that he didn’t directly comment on your cleavage. It shows that sex isn’t his first priority.

[FilmGuy93]

From a practical standpoint, I simply don't have time to talk with women (and people in general) that I don't think are worthwhile. I certainly don't put effort into talking with those people. This guy has been putting effort into you; that's about the clearest sign you could hope for, in terms of his genuine interest in you.

[Anonymous]

Ma'am if you reply you "cutee" after seeing your cleavages pic... than it's a clear that he didn't like it.

[kylee2437]

Or he just respects her enough not to sexualize her cleavage

[Opinion Owner]

That too is a setback...

Because she didn't send her cleavages selfie just to he respects her cleavages...

She want he fantasies about her that's the reason she send her clevage pic.

[kylee2437]

@opnion owner and where that backfires is not every woman that shows cleavage is looking for compliments on her cleavage and commenting on cleavage and surely backfire on you when a girl isn’t into that kind of stuff.

[kylee2437]

Can surely*

[Opinion Owner]

Dear beautiful ma'am...

You can see in her question she said "I want he fantasies" about me. 😊

[kylee2437]

Yes but does he know that? That’s the difference.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes ma'am guys get hints...

[kylee2437]

And how do you know a selfie like that is a hint? Lol you aren’t understanding she’s simply being indirect and has been and it seems like he’s trying to keep it respectful. I post cleavage pics all the time but I will ignore a man that comments on my body directly as a conversation starter. You can’t assume that a cleavage pic automatically means a woman wants sexual attention

[Opinion Owner]

Lol than what's make you girls post clevage pics if she don't want sexual attention?

Just curious ma'am.

[Asker]

What if he asked me to do a semi/nude photoshoot just like the models do? He told me that I should totally do it

[Opinion Owner]

@kylee2437

Look at her comment 😂😂
I told you 😂

[Asker]

Ugh! Tell me.. what does it mean? He sent me a link of gorgeous models doing nude/semi nude posing and commented that I should too. He was really persistent

[Opinion Owner]

Babes if you're comfortable than do it...

Instead of taking pics why not meet n do sex? Isn't it's simple?

[Asker]

But he never said he wants to have sex with me? Maybe hinted once. Why should I have sex with him when I don't even know if he is attracted to me or not?

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks. Lol
Let's have quick sex.

[avaisfree]

Maybe he's into you. Maybe you just validate his self-confidence. Maybe he fantasizes about you, or maybe he's just bored. Nothing you've said rules out any of these possibilities. Asking him would. If you can be brave, and rip the bandage off, then you can move forward one way or the other.

[Anonymous]

grow a vagina and a set of ovaries and ask him