Girls, What made you lose interest in a guy you liked for long time who liked you as well?

[Anonymous]

[ShellyB]

I have several long stories I could tell but to keep it short

One time I was with a guy bc everybody said we were perfect together but in reality I was just bored the whole time and was a bitch to him to get him to break up with me but he never did so I finally broke up with him.

One time I was super into a guy and he took advantage of me in so many ways I was brainwashed like I was in a one-girl cult and I realized it when he did something particularly bad that kind of broke the spell.

One time I was with a guy as a rebound and he took advantage in a sexual situation and did something I did not want or agree to.

I guess the first story may not count for this question bc I didn't exactly "like him for a long time." The other stories are basically that I was mistreated.

[Kayla45]

Before I met my now husband, I was attracted to this boy in high school many years ago. He was sweet and kind, always willing to help other people out. So I thought his kind and considerate behavior was attractive to me.

Fast forward several months, turns out the guy smoked cigarettes like a freight train. Major turn off, and his clothes smelled so strongly of smoke it made me uneasy being around him. *Sigh* I know it's such a silly reason to make me lose interest in him but that's how it went.

[mandyfire98]

Nothing scandalous really. Sometimes you just grow apart. Sometimes relationships just run their course. Two people can be really attracted to each other and really close but just grow apart over time. Sadly it happens more than you think. Relationships aren't automatic, you have to work at them and keep things interesting and spice things up sometimes.

[anonpabo]

he was way too introverted. being introverted isn't a bad thing at all , but i expect you to feel free enough to open up to me or hold a convo longer than 5 mins when dating me & he didn't :/

[Anonymous]

he was cheating