What made you instantly lose interest in someone you initially had a crush on?

[edmwarrior]

[Taniisokay]

There was a guy that was interested in me. I went to date with him. He asked what my dream was, I told him one dream of mine. Yhe first he did was laughing, telling me it's not possible for me to reach it as English is 4th language. He don't even speak English let alone write English. I left the date. I lost my interest in him as well.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

demotivating indeed haha

[Taniisokay]

@Maybe_Maybe_not yeahhh but that didn't stop me. I learned to not tell people my dreams 😊

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

oh errr this may be not exactly the right lesson to learn here, I mean, your dream has never been the issue, telling it neither, the issue was that you didn't evaluate first the capability of someone to listen to your dream. I would use myself as an example, I do tell my dreams with some selected people, people I know they would be open-minded enough to understand ;)

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

In other words, do not refrain yourself from opening up, as it is a good thing but select the people's spirit with whom you open up

[edmwarrior]

that's extremely messed up

[virtualwasp]

Lack of effort on their part.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Repeated profanity, I admit this is turning me off real quick lol, I'm not especially proud it happens like this, but I don't control it, it is as it is

[edmwarrior]

I kinda thought someone was attractive but she kept using the N word. She's latina. That turned me off so quick

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I sympathize, obviously :D 🤝

[bobalife]

inconsistency, not following through with action on what he said he will do, and doing the opposite of what he knows I'd like.

[Anonymous]

Seeing what immature drivel he put online
Realizing he was a radical conservative
Realizing he was a fuckboy

[edmwarrior]

did you lurk or did you guys add each other on social media?

[LiamJHayden]

I lose interest in a lady if she turns out to be rude.

[Anonymous]

Mostly her behavior. If she’s a entitled person. If she’s obnoxious. If she doesn’t have common decency.

[Starrrboy]

Talking to / hanging around with a person I didn't like...

[Anonymous]

Crush?

WTF!

[edmwarrior]

I didn't want to make the question too long winded

[CoolBoyOsama]

Wtf what