This happened a while back when I had this boy who I sat next to in class who I had a huge crush on. He ended up flirting with me in class and I’m pretty introverted but I was excited my crush was flirting with me but later while I was waiting for my bus these girls approached me and told me that apparently he has a girlfriend and his girlfriend was super pissed and wanted to fight me since somehow people twisted it to make it seem like I was the one flirting with him even though I wasn’t, he was the one that initiated everything.
And I immediately lost all attraction I had to him cause #1 cheating on a partner is the most unattractive thing a person can do and also I had to deal with sm bullying the entire semester because of that one incident even though he was the one in the wrong
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This happened to me freshman year of hs and luckily me and the girl aren’t fighting anymore. She broke up w him after realizing he was a dick
Whats something that made you immediately lose feelings for someone you were initially attracted to?
I had a huge crush on this girl. I bought a cute makeup/hair accessory set that I knew she liked. I asked her if she wanted to go on a date while presenting the gift. She smiled and started to reach out for the gift, but then looked at her friends first to look for conformation. Context. I'm fat. She was always nice to me and had the loveliest smile. Her friends looked in disgust. Her smile disappeared. All my love and her beauty vanished. I dropped the gift and walked away. She could've said no, she could've had an actual conversation. But no. Their opinion on my looks became her own in one look. It's the first and only time that happened to me, I've never again experienced seeing someone's smile turn empty.
They were, but we were young. I don't blame them anymore. It saddened me and I never forgot. But little ego boost was that I changed a lot after that. After summer vacation I was no longer shy, I no longer let shame rule over me. I became really social and positive. One of the two friends started to like the new me. Mind you appearance wise I didn't change, but now I was popular. I didn't give her the time of day.
I am sorry that has happened to you… It must have felt so bad…
I have this philosophy, If I respect myself, it means respecting people who like me, because if I respect myself and they like me, then they are the men with good taste, which deserves at least, my respect.
That girl lost a nice guy.
And I feel sorry that she paid attention to the opinions of her friends instead of her intuition.
After I flew 1500 miles to see her she showed up at the airport in a dirty hooded sweatshirt with her hair in a weird perm and combed to the side. She said that she almost forgot to pick me up. And just like that I decided I was done with her.
@caitycat21 We were together for 4 years , 3 of them were long distance and we had been talking about marriage. Then all of a sudden I saw her like she really was. I tried to put it out of my mind but I could not. Finally about 4 months later I called her on the phone late one Saturday night and broke up with her. She thought we should just get married. She really had no clue. I little while after thst I met my future wife. It all worked out.
I’m the complete opposite to you. I lose feelings for people who I was initially attracted to because they’re not sexually satisfying me so I’m forced to find it elsewhere.
Breaking promises, not trying to meet halfway, racists; All the behaviour that just isn't reasonable. I'm instantly seeing them as a dumb childish being and lose all interest.
