Is it wrong that I'm inlove with my dad's friend, and want to date him?

[Anonymous]

My dad grew up with this guy and I've known him since I was 9. I'm 18 now and he is 37. We talk a lot since forever right. We opened up about how we feel about each other a year ago and in a way it feels so right but also wrong and I'm not sure if it will look bad dating a guy 19 years older than me and I also don't want to hurt my dad or family. This guy has been very open like he said he will wait 20 year if he has to to be with me and he isn't embarrassed about it like he is willing to tell my dad he likes me.

[Guy13]

He’s too old for you but I know 45 year old women that have tagged 20-22 year olds. Hers too old fir you now..

[BJP21]

What occurs between you and your dads friend is between you both. Your romantic relationship is a separate entity than that of your dad being his friend.

[anonpabo]

you are both legal adults and can make your own decisions but im not sure if its to the cost of potentially troubling relationships with family members

[YoHoeRose]

He watched you grow up🤢 nothing wrong with age gaps but when the older one has know them since they were a child it just don't sit right with me

[Cuddlekisser]

If you go for it, you will be happy now, but unhappy in 5-10 years. So it depends what you expect from life.

[boggboss]

I dont see how it would look anything other then grooming to your dad but good luck I guess

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

My last girlfriend was age 18 and I was age 35 so it didn't matter to us

[BarryLiverstone]

Is he also into girls his age?

[Emanon25]

It’s not wrong but it’s not good either

[Xoxocutekitty]

Grooming

[panamared1]

Go for it