Is it wrong to have a crush on your friend's dad?

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ZackBan · Accepted Answer

Not wrong to have as it's not something you have total control over, however they way you act on it can be good and bad.

Many factors decide if it's meant to be:
Are you of legal age? Does he return the feelings? Is he and your friend open minded enough for this to work without ruining your friendship and more importantly his relationship with his own daughter?

If she is cool with it and loves her father no matter what and agrees that you and her can be friends regardless of a thing going on then yeah it's not morally wrong but if she has a problem with it and you do it anyway then you don't deserve her friendship

EaterPeter · Accepted Answer

Feeling comes and goes. Sometimes they become so very un manageable. Beware if that happens. Distance yourself from him for time being. Try to process the feeling properly. Admit to yourself you have crush on him. Is he married. Is he father of your guy fierrie or gal pal? Does your friend know about your crush. Which kind if crush you have. Enitional or sexual

Aurora1010 · Accepted Answer

No, because a crush is not something that anyone can control. But if you act on it without considering how your friend feels or worse if he is married, then it is a terrible thing

Hannah_le · Accepted Answer

I never have lol but no it’s not wrong.

NetSapien · Answer

No You may be crushing on him because you found qualities you generally find attractive in that particular man and not necessarily because he's your friend's dad.

nella965 · Answer

its not wrong, but it is strange. Most people don't experience that kinda stuff. We usually have crushes on boys around our age, not 35+ years older.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope not really. I fancy a mates sister and another mate, his mother is very hot  now acting on it, different matter lol.

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not. If he's married to your friend's mom, it would be wrong to hit on him. If he's single, maybe ask your friend if she would mind.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No, but it might be wrong to text him that pic if he’s married

pigoat · Answer

Not wrong But people like your friend will let feelings get in the way and make it seem wrong But it's not wrong

kkirk4442 · Answer

It's OK to have a crush on him, but definitely don't act on it.

Spade07 · Answer

Wrong? I don't know that is subjective. Part of me is excited by this I don't know why. Kind of want to know what she is gonna do.

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

I dunno right or wrong... But I had sex with my friends with benefits mom.  And it was awesome. by the way nice boobs.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

It's fine if it's only a crush but acting on it is a bit weird.

ashish804 · Answer

no... till u r ok if he really like u back then he would strip u naked to bang u... if u r ok getting fucked by him.. then its ok

Anonymous · Answer

You sexual desires are natural. It doesn't know or care that he is your friends father. You body is choosing a mate based on certain traits and he must have them. Never feel bad about who you are attracted to. You can't change that

sixtyeightplusone · Answer

I think it's wrong not to act on it. you only live once. Judging by your picture, if he's not available I can travel and you can call me whatever his name is

jamesgoldman · Answer

Crushing isn't wrong, acting on it could be however

Kit_Kat88 · Answer

No but it might be inappropriate especially if you’re underage

NightOwl8801 · Answer

Not at all as long as you don't act on said crush turning it into an intimate affair and thus complicating your friendship

JamieLoves · Answer

We can’t help who we crush on. You have to think of the consequences of acting on it though. Think carefully...

Blaine999 · Answer

It might be unorthodox for some and possibly uncomfortable for others if it gets out. But it's not wrong luv, not at all; absolutely beautiful pic by the way

EyesOfGod · Answer

Some people like old men some have daddy issues some like grandmas

Wise4myage · Answer

I see nothing wrong with this, as long as it remains a crush.

jerdanro · Answer

Why would it be. Feelings aren't right or wrong. Only our actions are.

Super-Sam · Answer

Totally wrong if you want to become mother of your friend.

McKellar · Answer

I think in my perspective of bordering between awkward & wrong.

koolkapy · Answer

no its completely fine i also have crush on my girl friends younger sister

Anonymous · Answer

My daughter's friend was hot for me when she was barely of age. It worked well.

maryisbreathing · Answer

m not wrong but weird

pink_and_inlove · Answer

If he’s married definitely

Neko911 · Answer

And what's the p8jnt of the picture?

Miristheiss · Answer

I'm thinking about American Pie.

Clairvear69 · Answer

Is okay, is strange but is okay to have

Kelly6 · Answer

No not at all

GothQueen12 · Answer

NO, not at all

msc545 · Answer

Not wrong but potentially troublesome

Iamanintrovert · Answer

yes. Because he is married.

zagor · Answer

No, as long as it's just in your mind.

Tomtom9090 · Answer

No im sure he wants to fuck you just as much

Twalli · Answer

You can't control who you're attracted to

OddBeMe · Answer

Common but not good to act on. Sorry dad.

Spiritdust · Answer

No, it is kind of hot

sheikalana · Answer

It happens.

Kayak_Guy · Answer

he probably has a crush on you as well

Yellovv · Answer

Who is that in picture?

cat13 · Answer

no its find

TheFlak38 · Answer

slut alert

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

You do?

Adam124 · Answer

Nope

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Crush’s are harmless

shalt · Answer

Suck that D

Diversity_Hire · Answer

#goals

NYlatefun · Answer

I don’t think so!

In_Trance · Answer

Not wrong

2ucozade · Answer

Yes.

QuietRunner · Answer

looking like that no

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Damn you're hot

Nachowedgie · Answer

Pointless picture

pokenstroke · Answer

go for it

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