Does my boyfriends father have a crush on me?

[Anonymous]

So me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and have known each other since we were 10. And I've noticed as of late his dad's been acting a little flirty with me. He constantly compliments me, telling me I'm beautiful and I'm gorgeous and that' I'm an amazing girl and that he love his son but I deserve a lot better. He jokes about me having a big butt or calls me bubble butt. He constantly trys to wrap his arms around my waist and my back. He's constantly messing with me by telling me we should move to another state and start our own business together. Or that we should build our own house for only me and him. And he also tells me every single problem him and his wife are having and how if she doesn't stop he's going to leave her. He tells everyone he sees me as a daughter but then does all that stuff when it's just me and him around. I'm so confused

[SometimesASiren]

This is a huge WTF. None of this is normal. Sounds like he is having a midlife crisis and you're at the center of it.

Keep in mind, men usually share a similar type with their fathers. It's not abnormal to get a future father-in-law who looks at you a certain way or is somewhat shy or adoring. But this situation you described is on a whole other level entirely.

Avoid being with him alone and avoid any beach, pool, or lake days with your boyfriend's family. Definitely pull back and don't partake in any conversations about his wife, either.

[Asker]

I don't I usually try to stay away and not be alone with him but it feels like he goes out of his way to nake sure we are alone together

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

If he’s dying all that, I could assume that he does or he wants to sleep with you. That’s inappropriate… Does your boyfriend know and does he do anything about it?

[Asker]

I feel like he knows but he does nothing all he does is play his video game all day long and that seems to be his only care so I'm worried also that he knows and doesn't care but what if he doesn't and this will crush him

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Well, it’s important for him to know being his father is crossing a massive boundary.
If he doesn’t care, then that shows something is seriously wrong. What person DOES NOT care that their father is doing this and saying these things to their girlfriend?

I would tell him and see what he says and then figure out what you’re going to do about it, because it’s wrong.

[noohair]

You should be scared not confused. He has no respect for his son or wife. Major red flag.

[Asker]

I'm scared that if I say something then they won't believe me and then I'm also scared to say something and it ruin everyone's lives I do not know what I should do

[noohair]

If you were my daughter, I would be concerned for you and your life. It sounds toxic and I would want you out of that mess. Please be safe.

[TheMajesticKing777]

Crush or lusting for you, either ways he is being a shitty father

[spartan55]

Ya, you girls sure get confused a lot.

[Avicenna]

Sure sounds like he is at least attracted to you

[DrHonesty]

Suck his dick under a desk at least

[Iron_Man]

Yes he does What will you do

[Asker]

I don't know because I love my boyfriend and this will crush him me and him even have kids together

[Iron_Man]

Do you have a crush on the father

[Asker]

No not at all he's 20 years older than me

[Iron_Man]

Ok,,,

[OddBeMe]

Eek, yeah. Maybe he’lol calm down.

[Wise4myage]

Yep, he sure does.

[In_Trance]

maybe