So I am madly in love with my boyfriend Todd and I I know we have a bright future together. We have been dating for over a year now. He is two years younger than me.
I have always been attracted to the bad boy type; tattoos, older, cynical, scruffy, etc. which fits his father Dan perfectly and doesn't fit my boyfriend. My boyfriend Todd and his father Dan live together in an apartment which is kinda like a bachelor pad. Dan is not yet 40 and has no love life. He has been divorced and doesn't really date now that he has custody of Todd, however he watches more porn than a 15 year old boy.
Since Todd won't get his license and I don't have a car, Dan usually volunteers to be our taxi. I also do many things with the family and the grandparents love me. Dan even goes out with us sometimes. When Todd acts immature his father and I tend to click more and "flirt."
There has been at least one occasion where Todd has been jealous of his father Dan and noted on a "thing" we had going.
I know Dan has seen/heard me being provocative.
I do not wish to pursue Dan and I know that he is just so happy for his son. He has sacrificed so much for Todd and I admire him so much for that. I know his father would never pursue me either.
Lately I have been having fantasies of making love to Dan while Todd is away. I act provocatively and then Dan falls for me. He shows me how a woman "should" be treated sexually (although Todd does wonders ;) and then caresses my body and compliments my curves. Then he tells me how happy is is for his son and that he wishes he could have found a woman like me.
These thoughts have made me develop some sort of crush on Dan and every time I talk to Todd now I feel guilty.
I think it has developed from my admiration of Dan, Todd has also told me much about Dan's sexual habits which didn't help... and the fact that Dan has been around for many of Todd and I's time spent with one another. He has become almost a fixture in our relationship, and part of my relationship with Todd? I don't even know -.-
I would like advice on how to get over my crush on Dan because Todd is the love of my life.
(btw; threesome is not a suggestion! lol)
I have always been attracted to the bad boy type; tattoos, older, cynical, scruffy, etc. which fits his father Dan perfectly and doesn't fit my boyfriend. My boyfriend Todd and his father Dan live together in an apartment which is kinda like a bachelor pad. Dan is not yet 40 and has no love life. He has been divorced and doesn't really date now that he has custody of Todd, however he watches more porn than a 15 year old boy.
Since Todd won't get his license and I don't have a car, Dan usually volunteers to be our taxi. I also do many things with the family and the grandparents love me. Dan even goes out with us sometimes. When Todd acts immature his father and I tend to click more and "flirt."
There has been at least one occasion where Todd has been jealous of his father Dan and noted on a "thing" we had going.
I know Dan has seen/heard me being provocative.
I do not wish to pursue Dan and I know that he is just so happy for his son. He has sacrificed so much for Todd and I admire him so much for that. I know his father would never pursue me either.
Lately I have been having fantasies of making love to Dan while Todd is away. I act provocatively and then Dan falls for me. He shows me how a woman "should" be treated sexually (although Todd does wonders ;) and then caresses my body and compliments my curves. Then he tells me how happy is is for his son and that he wishes he could have found a woman like me.
These thoughts have made me develop some sort of crush on Dan and every time I talk to Todd now I feel guilty.
I think it has developed from my admiration of Dan, Todd has also told me much about Dan's sexual habits which didn't help... and the fact that Dan has been around for many of Todd and I's time spent with one another. He has become almost a fixture in our relationship, and part of my relationship with Todd? I don't even know -.-
I would like advice on how to get over my crush on Dan because Todd is the love of my life.
(btw; threesome is not a suggestion! lol)
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