Slept with my moms boyfriends son. PLEASE HELP?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone, so before you think this is a troll question just know that I'm being dead serious and I totally regret it. Basically my mom has been single for a long time and she started dating this really nice guy four months ago. She didn't want to introduce me to him until she was actually serious about him. My older sister and brother live in a different country so my little brother and I are the only ones that have actually met my moms boyfriend. I'll be leaving for uni next year but for now I'm with my mom. he is such a nice guy he got along with my brother and I so I'm honestly happy for my mom. Two weeks ago my mom decided it's time I meet his side of the family, so we went for dinner and there i met his only child (son) whose 20 I'm 18. I was instantly attracted to him and I could tell he was into me too, our parents didn't notice but yeah. The dinner went well and everything was fine. He asked for my number to "get to know me" and I gave it to him. Let's name him Dylan" so Dylan and I spoke everyday after that and we actually have a lot in common. Long story short, my little bro left for camp last week Friday and my mom went on a weekend long holiday with her boyfriend. I was happy cause I like to have the house to myself. But she told me that Dylan was in the country for a month then he heads back to uni so she wanted me to keep him company and maybe introduce him to some of my friends. So we went to a party together I introduced him to some people I know, he hit it off with one girl but he kept starring at me. Anyways long story short, he dropped me off at home, we were both really drunk so I told him he could stay over at my place cause his dads house is far from mine. He agreed too and the minute we walked into the house, I locked the door behind me and when I turned around he kissed me, one thing lead to another and we had sex. next morning we had sex again so I can't even lie that it was a mistake. I've been ignoring him but he's coming over tomorrow.

[chrisbigman]

How can I help someone who knowingly got drunk at a party when you both were underage then slept together despite knowing your parents are dating each other? You both got hit with the "lust bug" and now it's causing you trouble. Best thing I can suggest is to tell your parents the truth. The fact that you both are of age means they can't be mad at you for being underage and that they can't charge either of you with statutory rape. However, they CAN be mad at you two for ruining what they (your parents) were looking for - love. Either you two need to stay away from either other or your parents do. Otherwise, it's just weird. I would NEVER sleep with my mom's boyfriend's daughter or my dad's girlfriend's daughter - even if she was very attractive. Unless they break up, I wouldn't even think of the daughter in a sexual way. Maybe even if they DID break up!!!

[Dylankp38]

He's 20 she's 18, what do you mean by underage?

[chrisbigman]

@Dylankp38 Underage for drinking. Last I checked, you need to be 21 in the entire US.

[Dylankp38]

Were I'm from it's 18. Don't speak for everyone

[chrisbigman]

@Dylankp38 Where did I say I was speaking for everyone? Unless she also lives in Zambia or she did this in the US, you don't have much of an argument.

[chrisbigman]

Thanks very much for MHGO.

[Intraluminal]

What's the problem? He likes you. You like him. You're not related by blood, and you didn't grow up together. He may be a decent guy like his dad. Again, what's the problem?

[Anonymous]

It is fine. It is not illegal, and it is only your own conscience that is making you feel bad.

Carry on as you are, if you feel he is right for you. He could turn out to be your soul-mate!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO.

[Wolf1967]

Just let the energy happen and dont fight it. Talk to him that it is a NSA and set your mind to it. Dont fall for him unless... He is the one?

[Anonymous]

Just have fun. But don't get attached and don't let your parents find out. Similar situation before, it isn't that bad.. just donot let your parents find out

[ILoveShortWomen]

There's two people responsible here so take the blame up front and split it, best advice I got.

[Uncut]

Yikes. I can't even tell you what to do. But I'm sure they make porn movies off of stories like this

[Dude55]

What's the problem then?

[zolta]

Tell ur mom before it gets too messy.

[Revolver_Ocelot]

tell him to kill himself

[Theicekube]

It's not blood so I guess it's fine