Boyfriend sleeps over at baby mommas?

[cicirose24]

So my boyfriend has two baby mamas. He is a truck driver so he is gone most of the week I go on his routes with him, then I drop him off at his baby moms. I have never felt comfortable with the situation knowing that he sleeping over at her house but they both tell me it’s just for the kids. I do trust them but I don’t if that makes sense. He tells me he sleeps on the couch plays with the kids and falls asleep on the couch he also drinks too and passes on the couch. I explain to him and her I am both on comfortable with the situation I don’t want to feel like anything is going on but she’s a ex. How should I feel about this should I be petty still be be questioning him all the time and her about sharing the same bed if they do?

[Bananaman177]

The reason you trust them and yet still feel uncomfortable is because deep down, you know that even though they might not have done anything yet, the possibility still exists and although you may be able to trust him somewhat, in theory, you know for a stone cold fact you can't trust that bitch.

Not no way, not no how.

And he's just a man. It might be different if she was just some stranger, but she's the mother of his kids. When she slips her arms around him and whispers in his ear, what will he think? She'll tell him every sweet, sweet lie she knows he's always wanted to hear. She'll make it sound so good, and so right. "C'mon baby, let's be a family again."

This situation is untenable and you know it. Act now or be left forever holding the bag.

[RACSKC0B]

Wow, that's a tough one, because you don't want to seem like the bad guy not being comfortable with it. But I can't imagine how you could be.
If he's never given you any reason not to take his word for it, then either you trust him and her or you don't.
Have you met the kids?
It sounds like you've met his ex, right?

[cicirose24]

Haven’t met the kids or the ex

[RACSKC0B]

Oh, no, no, no.
You should have a problem with that, and it shouldn't require you explaining why it's an issue.

[iseekpinetrees]

Considering my ex fucked his baby momma the whole yr I dated him I wouldn't trust this guy lol. Yea id definitely think he's fucking her. Why else stay there? Especially if he's dating someone. You should ask the kids. Pull them aside ask where daddy sleeps. That'll tell u if he's fucking her.

[cicirose24]

How did you find out?

[iseekpinetrees]

She sent me pics of him laying next to her sleeping

[Jenom]

When I split with my kids' mom, I would go to her place after work and stay until late night when the kids were out to bed but never stayed the night. I never considered staying and if she had offered I would have thought that was a little weird and maybe she wanted to have sex or something. I wouldn't be comfortable in your shoes either. Why does he need to stay the night? Doesn't really make sense to me, unless something is happening between them.

[GAGSucksBalls1]

He shouldn't need to sleep over his baby momma's, if you're his girl, now

[Anonymous]

Does he having a big dick?
Maybe he fucks all his baby mommas as he rolls from town to town?
I think you could possibly be sharing this guy.
It's up to you how you feel about it.

[007kingifrit]

i can't beleive you would date a man who has a baby "momma" or ever use that low class term at all

[In_Trance]

you trust him, but that doesn't make sense... so you don't trust him.

[spartan55]

Man, you sound like a group of classy folks...

[Avicenna]

Your concern is completely legit

[chriscdi]

no cap id be bothered by it too

[pizzalovershouse]

Not a good sign