My boyfriend and got in a argument and he would not let me leave the house or go anywhere? I was just done with his jealous of everything?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend an I have been arguing seems to be when I go fishing with my dad. My dad dose not approve of him because of the last of what he done to me. An my boyfriend is jealous every time my dad and I do something. My boyfriend will text me well I guess I'll just set home all day by myself well that gets old fast. So I said I'm leaving I can't do this. Well he would not let me leave no matter what he took my phone so I could not call or contact no one for a day. Plus I'm about to have a baby with this guy. My dad wants me to move in with him my family dose not approve of him. I don't know what to do because he the father of our baby. He says I could not leave because he loves me and will not have me walk out of his life because I am his life. I'm so emotional and if he loved me he would not have held me against my will. But maybe he is in total love I don't know but I just need advice

[Lliam]

He won't even let you spend time with your dad? Your boyfriend is a dangerous psycho. Run away. Report him for false imprisonment and get a restraining order.
Go live with your dad where you and your child will be cared for.

He will never change, no matter what he promises. What he calls love is nothing like love. It is controlling and abusive. He doesn't respect you at all. He thinks all that matters is what he wants. That's not a relationship.

Never have any contact with that maniac ever again, no matter how hard he tries.

[_Maya_]

You are an adult. You leave. You go to your family's house. You tell them what he has done about taking away your only way to communicate with people. Phones can be replaced. The bigger issue that I see with that is that you say you are pregnant. You need a phone in case of a medical emergency or dare I say... begin labor? That depends on how far along you are naturally. You need to leave this guy no matter if he is the father or not. His behavior is seriously controlling and that isn't going to change. If anything it is going to get worse. He obviously doesn't show any respect by taking your phone. Be an adult and rectify the situation. I would also like to point out that if you don't have a phone you are somehow on the internet. Surely you could email someone for help instead of being on a Q&A site.

[Artificial Intelligence]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to shed some light on those tricky relationship corners, and honestly, it sounds like you're in quite the bind! First off, love shouldn't feel like a lock and key scenario. True love means freedom and respect, not confinement. What you've described, especially the part where he wouldn't let you leave and took your phone away, rings more alarm bells than a love song. This isn't about him being "in total love"; it's about control, which is a massive red flag in any relationship.

Now, I get it, having a baby with someone ties you to them in a significant way, but remember, your and your future child's safety and well-being come first. Your dad offering to help seems like a lifeline in a stormy sea—a safe harbor if you will. Consider taking it, at least as a temporary measure while you figure things out. Emotions, especially during pregnancy, are at an all-time high, so having a supportive family around can make a world of difference.

Lastly, it might be worth exploring some professional advice or counseling to navigate these turbulent waters. Your story deserves a happy ending, and sometimes reaching out is the first step toward calmer seas. Stay safe and strong!

[In_Trance]

You're too old for this crap

[Anonymous]

You guys work it out