Girls, Do you ever threaten to or actually do kick your boyfriend in his balls during arguments?

[Anonymous]

Do any girls threaten to hit/kick your boyfriend in his balls when your pissed or during an argument to make him stop? My girlfriend actually got so pissed during an argument once that she kicked me hard in my nuts ending the fight. Ever since then she threatens to kick me again if I try argueing with her. Do other girls go to this extent and emasculate their man?

Yes, I would kick my bf's balls for arguing (verbally)

No, I would never kick my boyfriend for argueing (verbally)

Maybe, depends how bad the argument escalated (verbally)

[tonyacrusch]

even if a guy isn't being violent, guys often posture and act tough and you never know if they might suddenly become violent. i think it's fair if he's starting to act aggressively but hasn't hit yet to remind him that if he punches you, you're going straight for the nuts. it's only fair and generally after putting the threat out there a guy come to his senses and back down.

[Beatrice1865]

He can just as easily disable you with a strike to the vagina. Remember that.

[Prettygurl12]

Lol no. That's called domestic violence and he can call the cops and I will get arrested. Why? Because in my state police have to make an arrest on a domestic violence call and guess who they'd be cuffing? That's right, me. And me going to jail for 93 days doesn't sound fun.

[Asker]

Lol, very smart way to think about it. I think most guys are too embarrassed to call police about something like that tho.

[cherylnamor]

tbh I usually feel bad but sometimes its like an instinctual reaction when he gets really mean or gets a bit aggressive cause I wok at a bar where I have to kick drunk handsy assholes in the balls like 5 or 6 times a week. he usually throws up and I feel really bad cause even one time he couldn't walk for the rest of the day but if I don't really feel that bad cause he usually starts it

[Beatrice1865]

I’ve had this same thing happen to me. Obviously I don’t have balls but I’ve been kicked in the vagina and I usually throw up and once I was floored for the day. That’s just cruel.

[cherylnamor]

@Beatrice1865 sounds like u do have balls lol, I've been clit kicked like 3 times and it hurts more getting hit anywhere else

[Beatrice1865]

I think you just have a crotch of steel lmao. I’ve kicked other women there in self defense, fighting with siblings, etc, and they all react like a man getting hit in the balls. You must’ve been hit wrong or alternatively you’re just remarkably tough.

[DivaMonae]

Umm... I don't think you're in a good relationship she's pretty much harassing you as well as wears the pants in the relationship.

You should leave her and get a restraining order.

[Lauren-green]

I accidentally kick him when we make out sometimes, but I would never do it on purpose!

[randomfemale]

I dont have a boyfriend, but if I did I would never. I'd love my man's balls and wiener too much hahaha

[Asker]

Very good to hear, our balls are very fragile and vulnerable, which makes it very dangerous to trust them in the hands of just any girl. lol

[randomfemale]

Yes and that is why I would worship my man's as if my life depended on it haha.

As should a guy. You can never trust some girls.

[lostgirl_searching]

I don't care how bad the argument I'm not going to hurt my boyfriend, I would rather keep arguing until it ends on it's own.

[soccerchick4eva]

holy woah 0_0 no haha that taking it to extreme haha

[Asker]

Right? It's not something to be used as a threat, the pain is serious and it isn't fair to think you can use my balls as a threat just cause you have a vagina.

[soccerchick4eva]

violence wouldn't even help whatever problem

[Asker]

So i could touch your booty without consequence?

[soccerchick4eva]

you won't get the violence from me, my boyfriend most likely hahahhah

[Asker]

I can wait till he's not around😏😉

[soccerchick4eva]

0_0 well that was a straight up answer 0_0 aha wowza

[Asker]

Nothin like a little pat on the booty. Lol >.<

[Anonymous]

I don't have a boyfriend, but I wouldn't kick any guy there unless he was attacking me; that's a serious assault. It must have hurt so much

[Asker]

The fight between us got way out of control and she just became so pissed and hurt by everything I was saying, that she kicked my nuts way harder than she should have. So yes, you are right, it hurt, unbelievably excruciating. I just fell to the floor pretty much crying and couldn't speak or move for quite a while. No girl could understand what it's like for a guy to experience when his own manhood gets used to drop him like a little baby helplessly clutching his nuts. Of course getting attacked or raped is the only time any guy deserves to feel such pain.

[Beatrice1865]

I mean, it feels the same way to get kicked in the vagina. I’ve been dropped and rendered helpless by that before. We understand. It doesn’t make it any less inappropriate that it happened to you, though.

[Anonymous]

I have done so before... got me into trouble but he gave in and stopped the charges

[DuckDuckGoosey]

I wouldn't, but I might would want to lol

[Asker]

I think every girl wants to kick their boyfriend in the nuts once in a while. If you ever do though, don't do it as hard as my girlfriend did.

[DuckDuckGoosey]

:O oh no

[Asker]

Oh yeaaahh!😎

[BreatheMe]

Hah, no. Your girlfriend is abusive.

[Asker]

Well I actually deserved to be kicked in the nuts the first time. I just don't like having my nuts threatened as if they are something she can use to scare and control me, which it kind of does since she has done it before. The first time our fighting got way out of control and it needed to stop, and after she kicked me, we both had time to calm down and apologize to each other after I recovered.

[BreatheMe]

Are you stupid? Do you know how much damage getting kicked there can cause?

[Asker]

I'm not stupid😔 I just don't think she was wrong to do that to end the fight, it was seriously way out of control and I was yelling hateful things. I think she may have kicked me too hard out of anger, but I forgave her after we both calmed down while I waited until getting up was bearable. No damage was done, I am not stupid...😔... But I don't like being told all the time she will do it again and feeling on edge. Sorry if I upset you or something... I wasn't meaning too😔

[BreatheMe]

No, haha you didn't upset me, it's just a sore topic. I know a guy who got kicked repeatedly there and now he can't have children. It's really so sad. If you guys are out of control fighting one of you just has to walk away. There's no need for getting physical unless it's really self defense.

[Asker]

Why was he repeatedly kicked in his nuts? You mean repeatedly kicked over and over all at one time, or several people kicked him over a period of time?

[BreatheMe]

I know that he got into a fight once and he was kicked twice really hard. After that he started feeling swelling, pain etc.. And he went to the doctor and the tests showed that he wouldn't be able to reproduce.
I think it was a buildup though. He got a football thrown at him in that area and shit like that. Whatever, my point is be careful. It's not a joke.

[Asker]

Okay...😔