Girls, have you ever physically hurt a guy when he's annoyed you?

Question

I ask this question because I was out with friends recently and we saw a couple arguing and she slapped him and stormed off, which led to a conversation of 'I would have done this...' etc etc.

Have any girls ever physically hurt a guy when they've annoyed you?...

What did you do?...

And did you regret it or feel guilty afterward?

ArtistBboy · Accepted Answer

Me and my ex were play fighting in the room.. She was laughing and I was smiling.. She was still laughing and said: "Stop stop, you're hurting me" without that assertive tone.. So I kept playing around.. Then I realized it wasn't fun and games anymore, that she was actually hurting - so I stopped and immediately threw my hands up the air with the expression like "i'm sorry oh sh*t I didn't realize!".. Then WHAM... followed up by BAM!.. She socked me two good ones right to the jaw.. Instantly I pointed at her with both hands - said: "We're through" and left the room.. She chased me out the house, I got in my car, she kept trying to talk to me, and I left.

Regardless of age, it will p*ss a guy off if you hit him in the face..

Let's face it, sometimes guys don't understand that they are hurting you (speaking to women here).. So in turn you have to show him your hurting.. The easiest way to scare the sh*t out of him, without getting anything but affection in return, is to use a very assertive voice: "(name) back off." .. If he doesn't listen to you and get the f*** out of your way, he knows he's gonna listen about it later.. You're not cussing or calling him names, you're tell him- "get off me".

I think that would have struck more fear in me than anger; especially compared to this situation. When a girl is physically playfighting me (or when I do something completely absurd like drooling over a girls ass) I'll presume I have it coming to get hit.. That's why I leave, it's not because I am upset she hit me or that I'm breaking up with her - it's that I don't want to let things escalate to where I DO break up with her, out of pure rage.

Moral of the story - if something is bothering you, you have to show him and say something.. Don't just "ouch, stop".. Be like: "Listen (name) you're hurting me, back off"... If he doesn't get the tip and this keeps happening - move on, there's no sense letting yourself stay in a situation that could escalate in to domestic abuse, ever.

~ ArtistBBoy

eskwillhelp · Accepted Answer

All these ballbusters mentioned in comments here should have been sued in small claims court and had restraining orders taken out against them. Or their parents needed to inflict major discipline. They're all so ignorant.

So many chicks have that weird arrogance when it comes to initiating violence. Where does the sense of entitlement come from? The laws of assault and battery don't have exemptions for female attackers.

There is risk of permanent injury, not just pain.

The only legal motives for a genital attack: Self-defense when escape is unsafe or impractical.

Illegal motives for a genital attack include all of the following:

punish guys when you dislike their words (independent of how mean, degrading, or distressing the words are)

amusement at the reaction (victims' facial expressions and words)

wanting to disprove stereotypes about male toughness and female weakness

misandry (hatred of men)

sadism (laughing at the hurt)

ignorance or misunderstanding (thinking the laws of assault and battery don't apply when females hit males)

seeking a power trip (girls allegedly are too weak to hurt men, so it's a special opportunity)

sexual infidelity

Seriously, victims should get aggressive and creative about punishing this nonsense.

mandy_lynn · Accepted Answer

yes

One time at work, ( I'm a waitress) this guy kept hanging around the bar where I make the drinks at and he kept hitting on me, I made it very clear I didn't want anything to do with him but that just seemed to p*ss him off

well when I walked by him he slapped my ass so I turned around and told him "if you touch me again I'm going to punch you in the face".

I called security but no one came so for like an hour he was still there.

Well he continued to be a tool and when I was coming back behind the bar again he grabbed me by my hair and I mean really hard and told me I liked that or some sh*t so I punched him in the face as hard as I could. He started freaking out calling me a bitch and one of the male customers got up and came over there.

I would never put my hands on somebody unless they did it to me in a aggressive manner first.

I'm usually laid back and it takes a lot to make me mad but the sh*t he was doing was really uncalled for and to this day I don't feel guilty and I doubt I ever will

Mcstarr · Accepted Answer

Yes I have done this in some occasions but it has been the same guy. So we were in class and he sat behind me and he was pulling on my hair and he wouldn't so I used my history book to hit him on the head and I'm in high school so this guy just lives annoying me. Then in another occasion he was punching my thigh and again he wouldn't stop so I staved my nails into his wrist and he know has a scar and the third time he was giving me an Indian burn and he's strong so I couldn't get away and I told him to let go and he wouldn't so I bit his arm and I didn't let go until he let go of me so he know has a scar that has faided with time and he learned his leason don't f*^k with me cause I will get payback b*%#h and NO I did not feel bad cause I had goo enough reasons to hit him. And I'm not the type of girl that will let a guy hit me or treat me wrong cause I will get them back one way or another :)

tyt_2012 · Accepted Answer

Nah to be honest I`m actually a wimp but once I was in college and there was this guy who used to love teasing me in any way he couldand he knows quickly I get annoyed so he hit me on the head with a rolled up paper and I returned the favour

Its not a good idea to hit uys imo since they are physically stronger than us

I have playfully punched a few guys on the arm before but they were joking around with me too so it was no biggie...just a couple of teens goofing around

I`ve played Martial Arts and kick boxing with my brothers before but nah I wouldn`t say I actually hurt them but anyways they wanted to spar so I don`t feel guilty in the slightest

Courtsrad09 · Answer

Me and my ex were fighting while we were drinking. I looked through his phone (which I know is shady) and he had been talking to his ex calling her baby, telling her he still loved her etc. It ended up in this extremely heated argument and I swung on him multiple times. I can't honestly say I feel guilty because he was going behind my back, and I later found out he was cheating on me with her...

TonyMetal25 · Answer

if it's a guy hitting than it's abuse and HOW? WHY? FEMINISTS & WOMEN'S RIGHTS! well guess what hitting is abusive from both genders so no matter what happens, hitting should not be included unless he was causing a threat to you, but if you just hits a guy for a silly thing & he let's you go than he's a total pimp and ain't no man...he better bury himself...and if it was with me...be sure I will hit with a ruthless way a lot more than a guy cause your a girl and just the saying that your a girl and must not be hit will push me to the extreme that you will beg me to stop, you better not fall in the hands of the wrong guy...you want equality, THERE'S YOU EQUALITY >>brutally smacked like a guy<<

Anonymous · Answer

If a girl hits me and it doesn't hurt or do any physical damage to me, then I won't have a problem. Also I don't do anything to get hit. If a woman came at me trying to hit me with a baseball bat, and actually get a few blows. I'm going to punch her square in the face. A girl should NEVER hit a guy in the balls, and a guy should NEVER hit a girl in the stomach. Really neither gender should hit either gender. But in extreme cases when one needs to protect themselves from the other using self-defense, then hitting in the face, the inside of the knee caps. and other place will do fine.

Anonymous · Answer

Never a boyfriend, but there was this one d*** who just kept picking on me, commenting on everything I did and calling me stupid. He pushed me over the edge and I saw red and just started pummelling him in the middle of the supermarket (though I am a weakling and he said it didn't hurt).

The same guy kept grabbing my ass/boobs, I told him to stop and he just said he couldn't, so it got to the point where every time he did it I hit him in the crotch (not too hard). He told me to stop because it hurt, I told him that maybe he should learn not to molest me. Problem solved.

Quadrophonic84 · Answer

I was in a theater with an ex and an old ad for a movie with Bridget Bardot showed up and I said casually "She was really beautiful." About five seconds later, my girlfriend swung around with her fist and punched me straight in the testicles as hard as she could. I could not believe she did that...and I could not believe the pain...wow. I walked out of the theater and waited for her at the car. She was acting like I overreacted and I just drove her home. She had been drinking earlier in the night and I already knew she had a drinking problem. After 3 weeks I finally started replying to her texts and voicemails and told her I wouldn't see her again unless she got sober. She stayed sober for 3 weeks and then we dated for another few months but I ended up leaving her anyway because I just didn't really love her anymore.

Cupcakecutie0 · Answer

I had a girl slap me cause my pal sent me a picture of his girlfriend, I didn't ask for it. He just sent it She said " do you want me to look like that? Do you not love me anymore?!" then bam slapped me. I wanted to break up with her for it. How immature was that!

Hitting is never okay, ever.

I think its funny now that I look back on it tho haha. Classic girl gets jealous scenario.

Anonymous · Answer

I hate to admit it but I have hit my boyfriend many times when he pissed me off.  It was always jealousy issues where he would act like a total jerk when we would go out with friends and treat me like crap.  I regret it because it destroyed our relationship and caused a lot of personal pain.  Hate myself for it.  I would slap his face, scratch him across the face, try to shove him.  I'm a tiny girl and he's a bodybuilder so I never saw in my eyes that I was actually hurting him, but it was extremely wrong and I hope no one else acts like this.  It's abusive and yes, I know it's wrong.

TheCheshireCat · Answer

I once kicked a bully between the legs because he was harshly picking on me.  He never picked on me again aftr that :D

killthestory · Answer

I've socked a few dudes in my lifetime. They DESERVED it, as far as I'm concerned.

The karma of it all is ironic, however. I was arrested for battery when I actually didn't hit 'em in that instance... he freaking hit ME!

Anyway. I don't AT ALL go around hitting people. It's mostly uncalled for, but I am confident when anybody, not just dudes, need a good reality check.

katiesmuff · Answer

I was with some friends after work for a few drinks and this guy that none of us knew got in our face and would'nt go away.  At some point I punched him in the face.  He just backed away then and some other guys came over and got him the hell out of the place.  I don't regret it, but got scolded from the guys as they said what if he had of punched back.

Myth024 · Answer

I remember once my ex and I were having an argument over something I had done and she threw a plate at my head. I managed to dodge it but it made me so mad that I just left and went for a walk to cool down. In all honesty, beyond that, I've never been physically hurt by a woman. (Unless I asked nicely *grin* )

myspacemybroke · Answer

The only time physical violence is acceptable in my eyes is if the guy's been unfaithful, in which case pretty much anything is fair game. It really pisses off when guys stand for that sh*t and take it from their girlfriends. If a guy does it to another guy, they have a little freak out, kick the sh*t out of each other and it's all good. When a woman does it to a guy it's just f***ing stupid, because she knows he's not going to hit her back.

kyliedanmarie · Answer

I actually have slapped a guy before and I do not regret it because he was raising his arm at me, which made me suddenly go into a defense mode. We were arguing like no other and he was my boyfriend of 2 years.

Needless to say, not dating him anymore!

Hot_vampiress · Answer

A guy friend was teasing me in a way that made me uncomfortable, and he wouldn't stop. which almost made me cry. So I dug my long nails the new tattoo he'd gotten on his arm to make him stop. I didn't regret it. And the day after he apologized for what he had done.

I have also bitten my current boyfriend on the shoulder quite hard once, when we had just started dating. He was being to pushy about moving our relationship up a level. So I bit him hard so he'd stop. I have not regretted it.

blufrenzy93 · Answer

I've slapped and sorta punched my guys friends on the arms, but the punches never hurt them. Of course, I would never really punch them for real if I could either...

They were being stupid or said things that pissed me off. I tend to hit them sometimes when I'm playing around or because of what I said above.

xBezz · Answer

I tend to punch people when they annoy me. But not to hurt them. It's always just a playful jab.

The only time I can think of that I actually physically hurt a guy was when my Boyfriend started tickling me and I accidently elbowed him in the face, ahahaha. I felt bad about it and was relieved to see I hadn't hurt him badly. I don't think I could ever deliberately do something like that to someone.

Anonymous · Answer

A couple of weeks back me and my friends were in a club, and I went outside to get some air cause the place was boiling, and these two guys came out and they were like touching my ass and my breasts and trying to get my clothes off and stuff, I got really scared and I didn't know what to do but I slapped one across the face and he looked so shocked I had time to get away. I'm now thinking back, was I like assaulting him?  I shouldn't have hit him, at least not that soon

JC2001 · Answer

Yeah, I've been slapped by a girl before... but then I kicked her and broke her spine, so I guess I was 30-1 after that one.

Anonymous · Answer

I kicked a guy in the balls, then slapped him because he was trying to get his hands under my shirt once... He never approached me again.

shemale · Answer

i was in a realationship with a girl that like to hurt me she got off on it but guess what,so did I :)  she liked to go out on me to but I liiked that also,it is such a turn on for me to be abuse/hurt by a cute girl I swear,i know strange but very true.only really cute girls can get by with that though

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think hitting is okay...the only acceptable form of "hitting" is like playfighting, where it doesn't really hurt. I *accidentally* kicked a friend of mine in his "sensitive area" because he was torture-tickling me and even though I was really sorry he got reallllly mad..well he doubled over in pain and then wouldn't talk to me..but seriously, I hate tickling used as torture.

Asailum · Answer

theres a statistic that there are approximately 6 times more female attacking male domestic violence cases than male attacking females.

No one hears about it though because which guy is going to report a girl attacking him?

urs2luv1 · Answer

Yes, I am well trained in self defense and the last guy that grabbed my ass without my permission got a swift kick in the balls.  He stays away from me now.

indian_empress_91 · Answer

the only time I would hit a guy is if he cheated on me or said something real nasty and unappropriate about my sisters and parents or if he is hurting someone else or to defend anybody who he is harming without being for justice

Anonymous · Answer

Yes this happened to me once...My ex said a lot of mean things to me such as: your mother is a Bi*tch...And he cheated ..Etc..So I was upset and without thinking took one of his text books and slapped him in the face with it...Where I'm from talking about a person's mother is the most offensive thing someone can do...But now I regret it because it was immature and when he said those things I should just left politely (lady like)

ewkimchi · Answer

LOL well I did kick a guy when I had my ugg boots on. Then he called me violent :( But then I started liking him...and he told me he liked me and wa la now we're going out LOL

snowboarder720 · Answer

I think its kinda hot when a girl gets violent ha ha (I don't mean that in a perverted way), its a REALLY big turn on to me when a girl shows a little bit of her aggressive side and she isn't afraid to show you that side.

Tahyo · Answer

A lot of guys have it coming and need the stupid knocked out of them..I for one thankfully have never been decked, even after questionable comments made

Arwens-Fire · Answer

Noooooo...i stay away from being ohysical with anyone.I would much rather use words.I feel like I shouldn't be with the guy if I feel like hitting him.

likewoahhh · Answer

i playfully punch my guy friends in the arm , but I never intentionally hurt them  even if my boyfriend cheated on me, walking away and leaving them would be the best solution :)

GIntrovert · Answer

I wouldn't want to be with someone who hits people who merely annoy them...

partypunk · Answer

As someone who would never hit another person unless they hit me, I would expect the same curtsy regardless of gender.

chikibby · Answer

hahahaha I punched my ex hubby in the nuts because he wouldn't let me sleep hahahaha.. I felt bad wen I saw he wouldn't move but it was still funny! I alsokind of kiked his butt after he left a hicky on my neck (we were playing) an we were separet already! aww funny memories!

Letsbereal · Answer

My ex would have never dared put hands on me. Not that I would hit her back Bt had she slapped me I would probably scream at her but deep down I think I would like it( Crazy thought right)

nice_lil_sprout · Answer

Well, one time I slapped my husbands chest really hard when he was mocking me like a 12 year old would.  I did it without even thinking, and was really surprised that I did it :s

justmejssica · Answer

I wouldn't  because being annoyed isn't reason enough for me to hit someone even if it is "just a slap" I just think it's better to walk off your anger and let cooler heads prevail.

udolipixie · Answer

Nope just emotionally, mentally, and psychologically. Wounds heal. But internal scars last until therapy.

Anonymous · Answer

I slapped a guy when I was pissed. He didn't do anything about it. Just stood there. Felt guilty as hell after that, but I didn't really have the guts to apologize until a week later lol (I was still pissed and too stubborn to give in)

MikeVick4MVP · Answer

lol...if a girl tried...she'd have a hand print on her face 4 life

Anonymous · Answer

I sometimes punch my guy friends on the arm but playfully. But one of them actually like it, he said : more! more! I like it when girls are trying to hurt me! So I punch him harder but he still wants more..I get tired at the end lol

Anonymous · Answer

A guy was biting me & I told him to stop & he didn't listen so I hit him, just to make him stop.  I don't know if it counts since we were making out &  it probably turned him on...

sikoo31 · Answer

yes, many times. worst I've done is give a guy a black eye from fighting him.

sweet_18 · Answer

I've slapped a guy before but it didn't hurt him. I would never physically hurt someone just because I got mad at them. Violence solves nothing.

d3vang · Answer

i had an ex punch me in the nose and make it bleed.. she didn't seem to care.

Green_Tea · Answer

yea when I was little I beat up some boys. it was fun

kamilahpiab · Answer

Hell yessssss, I sure did, how did I feel about it, At first, great, maybe even a little powerfull.Then after awhile...pretty damn bad

Anonymous · Answer

Yes...a guy kick me because he thought I was ugly...

Anonymous · Answer

not really. I mean, I'll playfully slap them or hit them. but not enough to hurt

unknown88 · Answer

Ex has punched me in the neck before lol was ment for my face but she is a girl and it was a poor attempt but I give her her dues... she tried.

Sam1701 · Answer

My friend was beating me with a hat and I liked him and broke his thumb. I felt bad at first but he got over it:)

guacamole8774 · Answer

ive been punched by a girl...

jenn33 · Answer

no, but I should've.

boo69 · Answer

yes and I got no parole for it

rallz93 · Answer

only joking ...nothing serious ..

x213erx · Answer

now that's a mean question to ask haha.

Girls, have you ever physically hurt a guy when he's annoyed you?

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