So, she really wants this thing, and she brings its up 10 times a day. Sometimes she'll just act sad that she can't have it, or sometimes she will jokingly say "Oh if only my amazing boyfriend would get this for me I would be so happy."
So I told her I may get it for her one weekend. Unfortunately that weekend cost me a pretty penny so I pushed it back. This just made her nag me more and more saying I was pushing back my promise and always jokingly asking me for it. But, I've never let her down. I always keep my promises and deliver. But she kept nagging at me, her boyfriend, as if I was her parents or something.
So I told her to cut me some slack, and said "If I constantly asked you to buy me something, how would you feel? Probably as if I see you only as a giant wallet."
She got upset at this, told me she didn't see me like that at all. I felt bad and told her just to trust me because I always keep my promises and she, still upset, went to sleep.
Think what I said might have actually hit a nerve? Or should I apologize for what I said? I'm not sure...
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