Can it work if the woman makes more money than the guy in the relationship?

[Wtfman20]

[BoopBoopBeep]

There comes a point where what you make doesn't matter once you're making so far past what you need to support your lifestyle. I dated a woman who made 7 figures and I dated a woman who made 70k. As long as she's spending far less than she makes I don't care what she makes because her money doesn't affect me. If she makes more than me I'm not going to change my lifestyle any. If her priorities with money are "now I've got a high earner so I'm going to go on a spending spree" then we aren't compatible anyway. If she wants somebody that can blow half a million every summer in the south of France with her, I wouldn't do that even if I had that kind of money, so we lack a basic compatibility that goes beyond how much I make.

[RebelinSteel]

Yeah it really does not matter who makes the most money.

I've dated girls when I was a university student and they were working, I was penniless and they had a fairly good wage.

Equally relationships where she was on a higher rank / grade and earning more.

Really does not matter

[Anonymous]

Yes. However, in my experience, I've had to be understanding and patient with his sense of masculenity. I've found other ways to make him feel manly in the relationship. For instance, I'll always ask him to fix things around the house. I'll always hold onto him for protection when we're watching scary movies. I constantly flirt with him about his muscles and tell him how strong he is/how much I love them. In bed I'll talk dirty about his muscular body and his penis (and constantly talk about how "huge" it is)

By doing all those things I'm able to help my man feel very masculine/manly in our relationship (despite the fact that I make quite a bit more than him)

[DishLady]

Sure but there has to be other balance in terms of the household etc

[Artificial Intelligence]

Absolutely! Love isn't measured by bank accounts; it thrives on mutual respect, understanding, and, oh, let's not forget, a good dose of romance and passion. In today’s world, a relationship where the woman earns more is just another scenario, not a problem. What truly matters is how both partners value each other beyond the paycheck. Communication is key—as long as you're both open about expectations and handling finances, you’re good to go. Who knows, this dynamic might even add some extra spice to your relationship. Remember, it's all about the love and understanding you share, not who picks up the tab! 😉

[UniquelyBasic]

Yes but only if the guy takes on more of the house duties or makes up for it in other ways. Seems like the problems arise when the guy who is making less still wants the woman to do most of the house work because that's a "Woman's" job.

[WhitneySnow]

I think so unless the guy gets super jealous or insecure

[bowenw]

Yes, it's irrelevant to me. I've been relationships where it's been both ways.

[strateguy632]

yes, i work in hi tech and many maybe most of the nerds who liked me earned more. no problem.

[Anonymous]

Not very often. More often the not the woman will end up resenting him for it. It might work if she's a real butterface. Because then he's bringing something to the relationship she wouldn't recieve otherwise.

[exitseven]

For many years my wife made more money than I did. We never made an issue about it

[SotiCoto]

Why would that make any difference? I mean someone has to make more than the other, right?

[handsomelad70]

Yes, if the man doesn't have a typical fragile male ego about a woman's out-earning a man.

[KrakenAttackin]

Usually not. Pretty soon the woman begins seeing thean as "lesser" and begins treating him as such.

[Anonymous]

I would love that shit.
Especially I could retire early because she made that much.

[Unit1]

Of course

[jahaims]

Duh.

[CriticalCatDad]

Not with me, no

[Wtfman20]

What would be the issue for you?

[CriticalCatDad]

She's privileged. All women are. I don't date or have relationships with privileged women.

[Wtfman20]

All women are privileged? Like where they will hang women for showing their hair? All the women that get raped they must be the privileged one huh?

[CriticalCatDad]

In the states they are. Outside of the states is where the feminists should be but they'd rather continue to demonize men instead of helping the women in the world who need it

[Wtfman20]

I'm not a feminist, that's toxic also. It's just, I don't understand how if a woman makes a lot of money, not with only fans, and is successful wouldn't a guy be privileged if he was in the same circumstance?

[CriticalCatDad]

I would not say so no because men are the ones who should be making more than women

[Wtfman20]

It's unfortunate that we've come to this state where women have to be independent and not allowed to be in their genuine feminine energy, which is not a feminist, that seems masculine to me. And men , provide and protect. Instead i hear red pill rhetoric and feminist battled it out.

[CriticalCatDad]

I prefer not to protect women. Wormn don't deserve protection in my opinion. Protecting women makes them privileged. I refuse to give women privilege they don't deserve.

[Wtfman20]

That makes no sense though. Sure I believe the man should be the provider in my ideal marriage, but I. Today's society even with two people household both end up having to work anyway. I don't see that as a privilege to have to work because life is too expensive

[CriticalCatDad]

Life is only expensive because of the dumbass women put in th Whitehouse for the last 4 years

[Wtfman20]

You don't seem very masculine to me. You seem very insecure. Not sure how your relationship with your mother is, but doesn't seem good if you have zero respect for women. Hopefully you're single, I wouldn't wish you on any woman.

[Wtfman20]

Oh by the way, majority of us history it's been mostly men in the white dude. This society was created by men. So

[CriticalCatDad]

I've been single for 9 years and hope to keep it that way. I've been constantly cheated on, falsely accused, and used for my money I refuse to see what bullshit I end up having to deal with next.

I honestly hated my mom growing up.

you're right men created th gynocentric social order we currently live in because they're pussies who give women everything and look where we are now gender wars, false accusations out the wazoo, marriage rates declining, babies being killed in abortions every day. What a perfect society we live in all thanks to the men who love women

[Wtfman20]

So if you had a girlfriend and she was drowning you say guess your dumb ass should have learned how to swim. Lol

[CriticalCatDad]

I'd do more than that I'd fucking abuse her ass

[CriticalCatDad]

So let's hope I remain single, yeah?

[Wtfman20]

Ok all this explains a lot about your opinions lol.

[CriticalCatDad]

Glad you now understand

[Wtfman20]

Yes again, I don't wish any women to be with you. You should stay single. Unless you're actually gay. Not sure, some men are in denial and hate women. So

[CriticalCatDad]

I'm not gay Im extremely attracted to women's bodies I just hate Sexual intercourse and women 🤷🏻‍♂️ just because I'm attracted to them doesn't mean I have to like them