I’m 26 I never had a guy meet my mom & dad, I live alone & I want live with a boyfriend. One guy I love and know many years he always deny anything I want, do deny meet family, deny live together , deny pics , deny everything. He visits me at my house & deny sleepover he want live forver with his mom & picky sleepy has to sleep only in his bed can’t sleep in other peoples houses. He deny me meet family Christmas but he come to my house spend Christmas. And we just exhange gifts alone. He takes care of mom as his dad don’t live with them & they live with sister and her partner and 4 kids in same house.
I can’t have baby as he force me take plan b pill 😞 or sometimes too scared have intamicy so we have no baby.
he text me daily & meet me weekly or 2x a wk & i follow him on his only day off.
now my house is infested with things he have bought for me online or his gifts & I feel depresed.
I met one guy online that wants live together meet family & agree to anything I say but for some reason I’m not attracted to his face. For some reason his eyes are bothering me & none of us are pursuing other in text. He lives in another state & will only come for one week visit family. He sounds too perfect but then talks of intamciy & he wants get me pregnant & it’s red flag to me cuz how I’ll be pregnant to a guy I meet in one week? Then magically we live together & he don’t even live here. 😞
im used to getting no from men my whole life since I was 13 I’m used to being rejected so I no longer get attention to other men or get butterflies. I no longer pursue men I kinda distance myself & continue doing everything alone. 😔
maybe I do this from so much rejected my whole life my body & mind stays away.
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It sounds like you're feeling frustrated and stuck in your current situation with your boyfriend, and that you're also feeling uncertain about the new guy you've met online. It's understandable that you might be hesitant to pursue a relationship with someone you don't feel fully attracted to, especially if they are pushing for intimacy or pregnancy too quickly.
In terms of getting a guy to meet your family and live together, it's important to remember that everyone's journey is different and there is no one-size-fits-all approach. It's important to prioritize your own needs and comfort levels, and to communicate your desires and expectations clearly to your partner.
If your current boyfriend is not willing to meet your family or live with you, it may be a sign that he is not as invested in the relationship as you are. It's important to have open and honest conversations with him about your feelings and desires, and to be clear about what you need in order to feel fulfilled and happy in the relationship.
As for the new guy you've met online, it's important to take things slow and get to know him better before making any big decisions. It's okay to take your time and to prioritize your own emotional wellbeing and safety above external pressures or expectations.
The most important thing I could say is to trust your own instincts and prioritize your own happiness and fulfillment in your relationships and your life in general.
I think the guy just has commitment issues. He’s only guy that pursues me year after year. We are very close like partners. Even tho we don’t live together yet or have baby. He’s a mommas boy so that might be why we don’t live together 🙁
Cuz he’s weekly at my apartment 🙄🙄🙄
It's possible that the guy you're seeing may have some commitment issues or concerns about taking the next step in your relationship. It's important to have an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings and desires, and to try to understand his perspective as well.
If he's a momma's boy, it's possible that his relationship with his mother may be impacting his ability to commit to a more serious relationship with you. It's important to communicate your needs and desires with him, and to see if there is a way to work through any concerns or issues that may be preventing you from moving forward together.
It's great that you are close and spend a lot of time together, but it's important to make sure that both of you are on the same page about your relationship and what you want for your future. If you're feeling frustrated or unfulfilled in your relationship, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist or counselor who can help you navigate these complex emotions and develop strategies for building a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
I like how that other guy agreed to everything I wanted which pregnancy , meet family , live together but I’m not attracted to his face. He’s not ugly but his eyes are weird. you can’t have intamicy and be pregnant by a guy u aren’t attracted to.
😔so yes I feel stuck with the current guy that I love. I feel I fullfilled empty, but I’m so attracted in love with him I want have his babies. or at least my first baby with him.
Unfulfilled ***
Bring it up
I get no as a reply
Ok. So that means they don’t want to meet your family. What does that tell you?
I don’t think they don’t want me meet family I think it’s more commitment issues… he talks to me of his family 24/7
I told him last year about meeting his mom or spend Christmas with family & he spent Christmas with me instead at my house & said his mom is grieving They lost fmaily member so she wudnt want meet anyone right now. And we spent Christmas at my house alone no fmaily
Try again another time
Where do u live may I ask? :) what state
California. Are you that girl that likes tattoos? Have a feeling you are
😂 oops forgot I was anonymous. 🤣 what city in California? I live in Cali too 🙂
You like girls with long dark hair? What’s ur type?
At this point just pm me lol