Should I let him pursue even if he?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I met this guy from a another state and we ended thing's but he ghosted me and kept contacting me. And I haven't heard from him.. so recently I met this guy in the comments on Instagram on a blog post and we started talking and he added me as a friend and we follow each other now.. So the guy from the other state that ghosted reached out again and said he didn't want to refriend me on social media because he's not on there so I looked at his pg and it was a lie. He was on there but the crazy part is the random guy that I started talking to is his friends with him on ig how crazy is that? I couldn't believe it.. I was wondering is it a bad idea to let his friend or family member pursue me? Just so you know I NEVER met the guy from the other state, we met on ig and only talked for a couple months

[Honest-Matt]

You're a grown as woman, do you what you want, others be damned ;)

[Guy13]

You are getting set-up

[Asker]

I messaged him first in the comments. It's a small world

[Guy13]

Alright. You know better than I. I didn’t mean to be negative but my first instinct was that. Hope I did not offends. Don’t meet them alone please. 😎

[Asker]

But since they both live in the same city and they know each other. Do you think he might tell the new guy or do think that he may think I'm stalking he because it's very unlikely to run into someone else who your ex situationship knows especially if you've never lived in the same city

[Guy13]

Too many what if in this to even guess safely. Keep your distance.

[Asker]

By the way the other guy that ghosted me was a narcissist

[Iron_Man]

Move on with your life

[Asker]

I did but I didn't expect to met a random I messaged first to be friends with him. It's not the fact that you think I didn't move on I did but it's just a small world