Should I block him?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months now, his great, things have been going well. I really started to like him. Recently in the past couple weeks, his been distant and hasn’t been talking as much. Now it just seems like his responding and he does not initiate conversation.

Honestly I am a little hurt. I am sick of sitting around overthinking and waiting to see if he texts or calls me.

I find that if I don’t block him, I’ll just keep messaging and chasing him because I have no self-control. I don’t want to seem desperate.

I know it seems rude, but it’s the my own mental health. I just want to block him and move on with my life.

[mlvrjohnconnor]

I would suggest you to think for yourself, and be compassionate when you are able to. Best solution is to have a mature conversation to see if you guys can work it out. Otherwise, do what you think is the best for you. Just make sure what you do is indeed what you want, there may be no going back if you block him.

[Asker]

I have a feeling he doesn’t want anything serious that’s why his pulling away and I can understand that but I feel hurt and used. And you are right, I should have a conversation with him but at the same time, it seems easier to block him and move on with my life.

[Iron_Man]

That’s cruel to block somebody work it out